For birth #1, I had everything but the kitchen sink in our birthplan (suture types, etc). For birth #2, after I had thought about it, I realized that if I was going to the hospital, it was because me or baby was in trouble, and I put in the stuff that was most important for us to still feel connected to the birth process. We did Birthing From Within, and thought about the question, "How can you have a birth that you still feel good about, even if you have to go to the hospital?" For us, it mostly involved us staying together as a family as much as we could during an emergency.
The other portion involved interventions to our baby after the birth. Here's ours:
HOSPITAL TRANSFER
Throughout labor, delivery and postpartum, it is very important to us to be kept fully informed and involved in hospital procedure. We would also appreciate having time to discuss and consider the options available to us when the need arises. Please do not perform any procedures or administer any medications (routine or otherwise) without allowing us to do so.
LABOR AND BIRTH
We plan to have the following people present at the birth: (husband), (mother-in-law) and (our son). In the case of emergency, I would like my husband to be with me at all times.
C-section:
ď€I would like (hubby) to be present.
ď€We would like to hold our baby immediately after delivery. If the baby needs warming, we would like for hubby to hold the baby skin to skin instead of having the baby go to the warmer.
FOLLOWING BIRTH
Please do not perform any procedures or tests or administer any medications or vaccines to our baby without our full knowledge and consent.
We would love to have:
ď€Immediate skin to skin contact with our baby
ď€Our baby with us at all times from the moment of birth.
Hubby will accompany him at all times if our baby needs intervention
ď€Hubby cut the cord after it has stopped pulsating.
Our feeling about typical interventions for our newborn baby:
ď€Bottles, pacifiers, formula – no thanks. We plan to breastfeed exclusively.
ď€Bathing – we’d like to bathe the baby for the first time.
ď€Eye ointment – we’d like to administer this ourselves
ď€Hep B vaccine – no thanks.
ď€Vitamin K – we will make this decision after the birth and after discussion with our midwife
ď€Circumcision – no thanks.