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Is my birth plan alright?

post #1 of 11
Thread Starter 
In terms of being clear and concise, is my birth plan alright? any other suggestions would be very helpful. Thank you!

Typed out, this is one page in length.


Patient Name: Megan Lastname
Care Provider: ____ Midwives

To the _____ Hospital OB-GYN-NBN Staff,

We are planning a natural birth, which involves no medical intervention to instigate, progress or assist the labor and delivery, except in the case that there is an imminent, real threat to the health and well-being of the mother or baby. If any interventions are medically necessary, we would like to be informed completely beforehand. We thank you in advance for your care and cooperation.
I wish to have no visitors, except for my husband, during labor and delivery. Please double check with me before allowing visitors after our baby is born. My husband is to remain with me at all times.

1st Stage
-NO PAIN MEDICATION unless requested. Please do not ask me if I want them.
-NO Pitocin or any kind of labor augmentation.
-minimal intervention: limited cervical/internal exams, intermittent external monitoring ONLY, NO medical students or excess staff.
-maintain a comfortable environment: food and drink as requested, maintain mobility during labor (birthing ball, shower/tub, position of choice, ability to labor in my own gown)
-All other interventions, even minimal (oxygen, IV, etc.) only if medically necessary, and only after all of the risks and benefits are explained to us.

2nd & 3rd stages
-I do not wish to push until I feel the need, in the position of my choice, and without direction/counting.
-I prefer tearing to episiotomy, and I would like the area numbed before stitching.
-My husband will cut the cord once pulsating has stopped. Please don't clamp cord.
-Placenta is to be birthed naturally & without administration of Pitocin or pulling of cord.
-Immediate skin-to-skin contact with baby, & immediate establishment of breastfeeding.

In Case of C-Section
-Please lower the curtain so that we can view the birth of our baby.
-Please allow our camera in the operating room.
-If baby must leave the room, my husband, ______, is to accompany her at all times.

Care of Our Newborn
-If baby must be moved away from me (even to NICU), my husband will accomany her.
-Baby is to room-in with mom.
-Baby is to be BREASTFED only. No pacifiers, bottles, or any type of artificial nipple.
-Baby is not to be bathed, we will rub the vernix into her skin.
-We have the proper exemption forms, and baby is not to receive the following standard newborn procedures: Vitamin K vaccine, HepB vaccine, Silver Nitrate Drops/Eye Ointment, Hearing Screening, and PKU test (will be performed at a later date at doctor's office).

Thank you for taking good care of us and our baby!
We appreciate your understanding and care.

Signed:
____________________________________ Mother

____________________________________ Father
post #2 of 11
I would have them sign it too
post #3 of 11
My only suggestion would be to define what you mean by "limited internal examinations". Otherwise it is very much open to interpretation and your HCP may have a different definition to yours.
post #4 of 11
wow, this is great! i'm pasting it into my collection

i was thinking, would it make sense and maybe give your husband more authority if you make the document from both of you, and refer to him as the father throughout (instead of "my husband"), not just at the end for signing purposes? just the subtle difference of presenting a unified front in language, and giving him equal status in ownership/responsibility could be good for application of all your requests.

also, are you saying you only need to be fully informed of interventions, or do you want to add you will be informed and then deciding/allowing... i know it's tricky, and you don't want to come across as uncooperative.... just wondering about your choice of language at those points (to be clear, for my benefit ).
post #5 of 11
Thread Starter 
Thanks Reading through it I do need to reword some things.

I made it more from me because saying "the father" reminds me too much of the maury show.. "you ARE the father!!" har har..

thank you very much though!
post #6 of 11
You might want to specify either no IV, or a Heplock. That can really help preserve mobility -- hard to walk around or shower while dragging an IV pole.
It's looks clear and concise, so that's good.
It looks like you don't have a doula? Have you considered one? They can help advocate for you and your birth plan.
post #7 of 11
That is a very detailed birth plan and many hospitals find them to be insulting and often will not read the whole thing if there is so much too it. I suggest that you use as few words as possible and cut out any extras and use bold typing on the really important things and bullet points. I know it is a pain, but many nurses just don't have the time or will to pour over your birth plan - so you either make it easy or they won't do it. It IS A VERY GOOD birth plan, I can tell you've put a lot of thought into it.
post #8 of 11
-My husband will cut the cord once pulsating has stopped. Please don't clamp cord.

No clamping of the cord at all? I haven't seen that fly around here, but your area might be different.
post #9 of 11
Thread Starter 
Becca- thanks Not a final, just a draft. One of many, lol. Thanks for the unput

April- I should clarify clamping AFTER pulsating has stopped
post #10 of 11
I think this is an excellent start, I think I might steal this from you. I might try making it a bit more brief...
post #11 of 11
Thread Starter 
I've been trying to make it more brief, it's just so difficult, esp. since I left out some things!
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