A friend of mine just found out she is having a baby boy today. I haven't talked to her yet, but a mutual friend informed me. I can't even be happy for her right now, because I know she will circumsize him. I have friends who have circed their boys and don't have this sadness, and almost animosity toward them. I am still planning on giving her anticirc info, not that it will make a difference. I am upset that he is gonna be cut, but I am also upset about feeling this way. I don't think it is healthy to obsess over someone else's unborn child like this. I can't help it, though, maybe I just need my own time to greive and heal. Nevertheless, I am sickened that she and her husband can't see the stupidit in their choice. Maybe, tomorrow I will feel better about the whole thing. I know they are deeply excited to have a boy, and I do want to be happy for them, I just don't get it.
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2/10/04 at 12:41am