reading these responses I realize again how blessed I was... my 5th baby was discovered breech upon pushing. It was amazing how quickly the tone of the room changed but despite pressure I did refuse the cesarean and gave birth. I admit, it was dicey b/c I knew my HCP had zero breech experience ... BUT I asked him to please not cut me (I had read about very interventive episiotomies and forceps, etc) and he said he wouldn't... Everything fell into place and when I heard an OB whisper to a nurse in the back of the room to go get the piper forceps I locked eye contact with MY dr. who told me to push..and I did...and my baby girl was born in one more looooong push.

That is the short version...but boy, I KNOW I dodged a bullet with that entire experience. My heart aches for all of my sisters who were not so respected in thier rights to choose
