I have a huge flag in my OB folder shouting "Shoulder Dystocia" from the birth of my second son. I am on baby #4 now. My homebirth midwife (I'm doing parallel care) said from what I described during labor and how they just "moved my legs" I really didn't have a true dystocia.
Considering I was induced, had an epidural, and was in the lithotomy position during pushing and he came out in 20 mins or so and was 9# 14 oz, I agree with my mw about it not really being a big deal.
Yesterday, my CNM was saying "they'd" do an ultrasound at 39 weeks and offer me a prophlactic C-Section because I have big babies and it's their policy to do so.
I asked her to look at the birth notes and she read what the other CNM wrote back then and it was as I described. I also said "Well, I was on my back."
She didn't say anything or change her opinion at all. From all of the birth literature I've read, "everyone knows" that lithotomy is the narrowest position of the pelvis. So why can't she see that this "shoulder dystocia" really was not a big deal.
If you didn't read my rant yesterday, she said, "Well if the baby's head comes out and the body can't, it's horrible."
What gives?
Considering I was induced, had an epidural, and was in the lithotomy position during pushing and he came out in 20 mins or so and was 9# 14 oz, I agree with my mw about it not really being a big deal.
Yesterday, my CNM was saying "they'd" do an ultrasound at 39 weeks and offer me a prophlactic C-Section because I have big babies and it's their policy to do so.
I asked her to look at the birth notes and she read what the other CNM wrote back then and it was as I described. I also said "Well, I was on my back."
She didn't say anything or change her opinion at all. From all of the birth literature I've read, "everyone knows" that lithotomy is the narrowest position of the pelvis. So why can't she see that this "shoulder dystocia" really was not a big deal.
If you didn't read my rant yesterday, she said, "Well if the baby's head comes out and the body can't, it's horrible."
What gives?









No, you didn't!