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post #21 of 148
I'm so, so sorry to hear that you lost your little boy.
post #22 of 148
Oh my gosh,bless your heart! Familys are forever, know that it will be a blink in time before your see your sweet babe again.
post #23 of 148
Oh mama, I am so sorry. I am praying for you and your family.


Sweet Nolan Ray
post #24 of 148
I am so sorry You and your family have my prayers. I just can't even begin to imagine what you are going through.
post #25 of 148
Oh Mama, I am so very sorry
post #26 of 148
I'm so, so sorry Mama.

Nolan
post #27 of 148
I am so sorry for your loss. I will be lifting you in prayer during this very difficult time
post #28 of 148
My thoughts are with you and your family during this time of terrible loss. Rest peacefully little Nolan.
post #29 of 148
May God be with you. You are in my prayers...
post #30 of 148
post #31 of 148
I'm not in your DDC, but I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #32 of 148
(((((((((HUGS)))))))))) and sending lots of prayers that your LO is held in His grace while your family is comforted in your grief! I am so sorry for your loss.
post #33 of 148
I am so very very saddened by your loss
Please be gentle with yourself. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
post #34 of 148
Ooohhhh...mama. Shit. I am so sorry. So very, very very sorry mama.

You don't know me but I actually lost my daughter Josie a year ago yesterday - so we're practically a year apart in terms of loss. She was 6lb, 6oz and 19.5 inches long at almost 38 weeks - I had a placental abruption.

I know the place you're in very well. I've been there. It's bizarre and crazy and hurtful and alien territory. I couldn't read and not post.

When you are ready, the pregnancy and birth loss board is a tremendous place to be - there are many, many wonderfully helpful and compassionate mamas on there who have been where you are.

I myself write a blog at www.opusangara.blogspot.com - it follows my journey, and from there you can see which blogs I follow as well - many of them blogs by mamas who have also lost babies.

You can also PM me, by all means, or email me at jeanne.bowyer@yahoo.com if you would like to. Even if it doesn't make sense, whatever you're writing. If you have pictures in color that you would like retouching, I can do that as well - I work charitably with mamas and papas who have lost their little ones. I would be more than happy to help. I am on Facebook as Jeanne Bowyer too if you have an account.

I expressed some breast milk after Josie died, and used some of it for her grave, and then also mixed some half and half with water and watered every plant in my house. Somehow it seemed the milk had done something good, then, and I ended up recovering from engorgement quite quickly. Maybe my body knew that the milk had gone somewhere with a purpose, you know? I wanted to tell you that in case it helped somehow.

What I can say is that there is light there - light at the end of this. Amazing as it may seem, there is hope and there is a capacity for great love and life after this.

*HUGE, huge hugs mama* and so much love to you XXXXXXXX
post #35 of 148
omg. i'm so sorry for your loss, mama.
post #36 of 148
I'm not in your DDC either but I feel I must too add a for you. I'm so sorry you lost your little boy


Along the lines of was JayJay was saying, I've heard some women take great comfort in donating their milk. It's the same idea as the plants - it's being used for something good.


I hope you are able to feel some comfort soon.
post #37 of 148
I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
post #38 of 148
I am so sorry for your loss. I cried when I read your birth story. Prayers to your family.
post #39 of 148
I'm so deeply deeply sorry for your loss
post #40 of 148
Im not in your DDC but I wanted to let you know that I am sorry for your loss. you are in my prayers.
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