I'm sure that sounds like one and the same. 
DD1 has some extensive work needing done on her teeth. She has soft/thin enamel and as a result has had spots that are essentially enamel free (it's a genetic thing....my brothers have it horribly as well). She's been in twice now (she's 4.5 years old). The first time fixed a couple spots on her front teeth that were near the gumline. We picked those first because of their location. The next one we did was on a molar. The spot was in between two teeth. The first time was a dream. She had fun and the dentist was awesome (we know the guy and picked him due to his gentle demeanor etc.). The second time I was a day early.
I had written the date down wrong but they had a free afternoon so they let us in anyway. I was so incredibly put off. The dentist was incredibly short with her, rude to me, used bribes and soft threats (teeth will fall out if you don't move...won't get a treat if you don't stop crying etc.). They were rough putting in the numbing agent and didn't give it enough time, IMO, to kick in. Needless to say she freaked. She was in tears and twisting away and there was nothing I could do. Her panic made DD2 panic and freak as well so I had to hold her in order to keep her from tugging on DD1 and causing issues and possible damage. It was NOT a good visit at all. DD1 knows she needs to go back as we have many more to work on and is willing to. She however does not want to go back to him. I don't blame her and am not planning on taking her in.
They are medicaid and I was just going through their approved dentists book and googling various ones. I found one nearby that sounds awesome. Not only does he do sedation but he's a pediatric dentist. I was reading his options for sedation and none are totally what I want. At this point I would prefer to put her under (I know there are risks) and get them all done at once. She currently has 8 spots (that I can see and some are large) that need done. I DO NOT want to space this out. His sedation options are Nitrous Oxide, Oral sedatives, and IV sedatives. The last two have a couple options depending on the severity of the fear/anxiety but he states they will still need pain killer (which obviously they will use).
Should I try one of those and space the appointments or should I keep looking and see if I can't find someone who put her to sleep and do them all at once. I've never had dental work needing anything more than a numbing agent in my gumline. I don't know how nitrous oxide works. I just want to get these done and fixed. Some are starting to hurt her.
There is one 2 towns over who I know is a pediatric dentist and will put her under (both times we went to the former dentist they suggested him if she didn't react well to doing it their way
) but I don't know if he's an approved dentist and it's a bit of a distance. I'd like to stay as local as I possibly can but if that's my only option I'll take it.
For those of who you have done BOTH which did you prefer? What should I do?

DD1 has some extensive work needing done on her teeth. She has soft/thin enamel and as a result has had spots that are essentially enamel free (it's a genetic thing....my brothers have it horribly as well). She's been in twice now (she's 4.5 years old). The first time fixed a couple spots on her front teeth that were near the gumline. We picked those first because of their location. The next one we did was on a molar. The spot was in between two teeth. The first time was a dream. She had fun and the dentist was awesome (we know the guy and picked him due to his gentle demeanor etc.). The second time I was a day early.
I had written the date down wrong but they had a free afternoon so they let us in anyway. I was so incredibly put off. The dentist was incredibly short with her, rude to me, used bribes and soft threats (teeth will fall out if you don't move...won't get a treat if you don't stop crying etc.). They were rough putting in the numbing agent and didn't give it enough time, IMO, to kick in. Needless to say she freaked. She was in tears and twisting away and there was nothing I could do. Her panic made DD2 panic and freak as well so I had to hold her in order to keep her from tugging on DD1 and causing issues and possible damage. It was NOT a good visit at all. DD1 knows she needs to go back as we have many more to work on and is willing to. She however does not want to go back to him. I don't blame her and am not planning on taking her in.They are medicaid and I was just going through their approved dentists book and googling various ones. I found one nearby that sounds awesome. Not only does he do sedation but he's a pediatric dentist. I was reading his options for sedation and none are totally what I want. At this point I would prefer to put her under (I know there are risks) and get them all done at once. She currently has 8 spots (that I can see and some are large) that need done. I DO NOT want to space this out. His sedation options are Nitrous Oxide, Oral sedatives, and IV sedatives. The last two have a couple options depending on the severity of the fear/anxiety but he states they will still need pain killer (which obviously they will use).
Should I try one of those and space the appointments or should I keep looking and see if I can't find someone who put her to sleep and do them all at once. I've never had dental work needing anything more than a numbing agent in my gumline. I don't know how nitrous oxide works. I just want to get these done and fixed. Some are starting to hurt her.
There is one 2 towns over who I know is a pediatric dentist and will put her under (both times we went to the former dentist they suggested him if she didn't react well to doing it their way
) but I don't know if he's an approved dentist and it's a bit of a distance. I'd like to stay as local as I possibly can but if that's my only option I'll take it.For those of who you have done BOTH which did you prefer? What should I do?






Also it wears off fairly quickly. I don't feel awful or groggy for the whole day.




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