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Still pregnant and full of whine.

post #1 of 9
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My due date isn't until Monday but I am just so, so done being pregnant. I've had heartburn for 9 months straight. I'm on prescription meds but they barely touch it, and I am so, so sick of eating only the "safest" foods (which still give me heartburn) and sleeping on 8 pillows and spending all day belching. I just want to be able to eat food again. Is that so much to ask, being able to eat something tasty? I'd kill for a bagel, or some orange juice... I dream about pizzas.

My MIL is due to arrive in 10 days, and this baby has to come well before she does because I cannot take having her here in the first few days. I just can't. She's self-centered and obnoxious and ought to be on medication. I can't imagine now why I agreed to let her come at all.

On top of that my husband is starting a new job on Wednesday. So except for a day or two unpaid when I actually give birth, he has no time off. None. I hired a postpartum doula but if this baby doesn't show up before Wednesday I'll barely have time to use her. And I like her. A to more than my mother in law. Of course my DH has had the last week off between jobs (thought he was going to start sooner but the schedule changed)... couldn't the baby have come on Tuesday so he could be around?? But no.

Sex and walking and having my membranes swept has done nothing at all. I don't have one single sign of labor.

Oh and on top of all that? My cat broke his foot this week. So now it's going to be me taking care of a newborn, a 3-year-old, AND a cat with a cast on his foot for the next 4-8 weeks. And the cat is currently in a pain funk and I keep having to actually dig him out from under the couch or the bed to get him to eat, which is totally making my heartburn worse.

Anyhow. Feel free to post your own whine.
post #2 of 9
I feel you mama!!!

I'm due tomorrow, and up until tonight I've felt pretty good. But all of a sudden I feel like I've gained 10 lbs in the last 5 hours...is that possible? I just feel so icky in my skin, and uncomfortable. I swear I could move fine last week, then BAM I'm uncontrollably waddling and grunting every time I move....

UNCOMFORTABLE.

I feel like my muscles atrophied over night...I just want to move like a normal person.

My MIL is out of town until tomorrow, I was really hoping to have our HB before then, so there wouldn't have to be as much explaining...doesn't look like thats happening.

O.k. that's enough of my whining...next...
post #3 of 9
I am battling a cold. It's hard to sleep because I am so congested. Plus my hips hurt really bad...I can be in a position for like 5 minutes and then have to move. I have stacks of pillows in the bed, but nothing seems to work anymore. Plus all of a sudden it feels like a herculean effort just to swing my legs over the side of the bed. My pelvis is really sore.

I wanted to have this baby soon, but now I'm so miserable from the cold that I would rather wait until I feel better. I've had to cancel my tutoring clients because I'm too sick, and also don't want to risk getting any sicker right before the baby comes, so that's money gone that I was counting on, plus I'm kind of bored of hanging around the house and watching tv. I won't be going to work this week either, on account of all the germy college students I work with there, and it's hard to get anything done at home.

My mom went almost two weeks past her due date with me, and since I'm at 39 weeks right now, I'm having trouble imagining another 3 weeks of this.

And I've been retaining a lot of water over the past month and my hands and feet are painfully swollen and I have carpel tunnels in my right hand, and have completely lost the feeling in two of my fingers. My midwife says it should clear up as soon as I have the baby, but that's just another thing...cooking, washing dishes, typing...anything that requires my hand is so painful.

Ick.

Ok. I'm done.
post #4 of 9
I still have 10 days until my due date, but I just started feeling uncomfortable this weekend. Crampiness, contractions that feel real and then go away, its very frustrating.
post #5 of 9
Sounds awful. I'm due on Monday too. Currently wasting my maternity leave w/ no baby in sight. Almost nothing left in my closet to wear, I look like a buldgy, bumpy whale in what I can squeeze into. I've gained about 60 lbs at this point, which is more than I've ever gained with a baby. Friday, the baby wedged herself under my sternum and I was having chest pain, I thought I was having a panic attack or a heart attack or both! I'm so glad she's settled into a better position now, or I'd be miserable too.
post #6 of 9
Oh man, a whine thread, just what I need. I am a week past my due date today and being patient is getting harder and harder each day. My in laws got here a week ago and were supposed to leave on Tuesday, but of course no baby yet. I originally had not wanted my in laws to come until two weeks after the baby was here so I didn't have to deal with them while I was waiting for labor and adjusting with the newborn, but they insisted. And now, they are just here waiting around for me, it is so annoying. In fact, they changed their flight to leave next Sunday now, so there is no chance of them missing the birth. It is not even like they are helping around the house or helping me, all they want to do is hang out with my husband and go shopping.

In addition, I was ok being patient and waiting for this little guy to come when he was ready, but now they found protein in my urine and are watching me like a hawk - NST every other day. So we set an induction date for this coming Thursday and that really bums me out because I really wanted to go natural and it seems like from everything I have read/heard this will make it harder.

I can't help but think that having my in laws here when I didn't want them is part of what is holding me back from going into labor. Arggggggghhhhhh!!!!!
post #7 of 9
I totally feel for you on the new job thing. My dp was laid off my whole pregnancy then went back to work in August at a temp job. I've called him home 3 times now and those are unpaid days. I hate wasting his hours like that and we REALLY can't afford to loose that income! Ugh! Oh and two months of prodromal labor. I'm 41 weeks today. I had a good cry with DP last night at like 2am and another this am with my midwife this am. I'm so sick of feeling this way. My kids call me a dragon because i'm so short tempered these days and OH the weather has been so cold we had to turn on the heat, which will be expensive, and our appt has really dirty ducts which our land lord won't service so we're all having HUGE allergy issues. I went my whole pregnancy with no need for allergy meds and now I'm wheezing all the time and have a sinus infection brewing. MW thinks I'll go in a matter of days and at this point I've been in constant prodromal for about 2-3 days.
post #8 of 9
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Originally Posted by fyrebloom View Post
MW thinks I'll go in a matter of days and at this point I've been in constant prodromal for about 2-3 days.
Hang in there! You're getting closer!

As far as the vents go, you've probably already thought of this, but have you tried changing the filter?
post #9 of 9
I'm thinking of doing that, Dunno how. We're supposed to move soon too and I don't know how much it will cost. I should kick his butt and make him take care if it. It's rediculous how bad the place stinks of burning dust and hair *barf*
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