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~*~ November '05 Mamas October thread...Better Late than Never! ~*~*

post #1 of 21
Thread Starter 
Hi there! I've been thinking of starting a new thread every day, and here we are way into October and it's just now happening! Attempting to take advantage of kids playing happily...we'll see how long that lasts!!

Congrats to Hillary on her new little one! :

Birthdays...I don't know what we'll do yet. I can't believe our babies are going to be 4! I still see him as a smiley, round faced baby! I know he wants a Wall-E cake though! We don't do the party thing any more, too stressful for me and not really the most fun to have a bunch of little kids all trying to share toys in an enclosed space! We usually do some kind of fun, memorable train-related trip!

It's been a looooooooong, dreary week. We've all been sick, I think it's the flu. And it's been freezing, and pouring rain for days. We're all stir crazy. I"m so ready to get back into a normal routine! Ezra is just climbing the walls, he was sick before any of us so now he's well, while the rest of us are just laying around! The weather is really complicating matters b/c we can't go outside even if we wanted to for some brightening sunshine and exercise!

Gunter- looking forward to hearing about your potential travel plans!

Mel- and about your job/moving plans!

The boob obsession is still really bad It's totally getting me down. I'm used to waiting out phases, but this is taking a really long time and doesn't seem to be getting better, only worse. It really doesn't matter if I am kind and talk about our feelings, speak firmly about respecting my body, or lose it and cry and yell. He'll do it 30 seconds later, he has no impulse control whatsoever. It's better out of the house, but of course lately we've only been in the house and in close proximity so it's been non stop!! It's really upsetting me that I can't enjoy having him as my baby for these last few weeks of pregnancy, and so often I have to keep my distance or struggle with him! Thanks so much, Gunter, for sharing what's going on with you, I'm glad to know I'm not the only one! But I hope it gets better for you and your Ez soon, too!

Well, happy fall everyone Look forward to hearing what you're all up to!
post #2 of 21
Awaken, this is a total shot in the dark. Some of the women on the allergy forum have noticed more twiddling when their kids have low magnesium levels, and it gets better when they supplement, feed mag-rich foods and/or do epsom salt baths. I know it's not quite the same problem, but might magnesium be an issue?

Congrats to barcelona and to Zjande!!! Yay for babies (and more on the way... from kavita, awaken and Helen- am I missing anyone?)

Maybe this can be our October and November thread...
post #3 of 21
Hey everyone! I'm too pooped to write much now, Rowan and I just did a weekend in Seattle visiting with friends and it was fun, but my DH couldn't come with us because he messed up his back sitting weirdly in the car a few weeks ago and it wasn't getting better and it seemed like a bad idea for him to sit in it again for a 6-hour trip. Crazy weather there, rain so hard it we had to pull over because we couldn't see to drive, then sunny 10 minutes later. I haven't seen weather like that anywhere outside of the tropics - Singapore comes to mind.

But while we were away DH refinished the kitchen table and it looks loooovely. Yay!

We seem to be avoiding the flu (knock on wood) - Rowan seemed to be coming down with something in Seattle but she was fine today, and it appears that thus far the cod liver oil plus extra vit. D that I've been cramming down our throats is working. My thyroid is apparently gibbled, though, but in what way and to what extent has yet to be determined. Aside from that, all is well.
post #4 of 21
I guess it's update time since this is my night off work, but gotta keep the noise down so everyone else can sleep. We have moved from the east side to the west side of FL. Things got bad wtih no work for months including a 6 week stay in a homeless shelter. We are now back in our own place although the vast majority of our belongings are still on the other side of the state. I've got a full time job working through a call center at home for a hotel chain. Having at least a ballpart figure of home much money I'll be getting every other week lowers the stress. On the other hand the million and one rules they have for how things must be done doesn't help my stress level.

With not knowing where we were going to end up when school started we have Annette enrolled in an virtual school and are sort of homeschooling here. As the kids are not getting much interaction with anyone at this point I don't know if they will be at home next year or if Annette will go to 3rd and Joseph to vpk. I do know they will not go the neighborhood school. As much as I am for helping out struggling schools some just need closed and from what I see of the one they are zoned for it falls in that category.

One another note somehow or other Kyle and I are still together. We have been through counseling and are currently looking for a new counselor. We moved about 30 miles from the shelter to where we live now in the country. The counselor we had been seeing only wanted to hand out medication and not actually talk about anything So along with that mess and taking precautions shortly after we wound up in the shelter, had been staying with a cousin, we found out am pg again I'm really starting to think an elective hysterectomy sounds like a good form of birth control at this rate. I have no clue how far along I am as my cycles were beyond wild thanks to stress.
post #5 of 21
Thread Starter 
Kristina- I'm so glad you checked in. Glad to hear you have a steady job and income, and you're out of the shelter! I'm hoping everything works out as it is supposed to with the baby on the way, and your and Kyle's relationship. Keep us posted, mama

Melanie- mag. is a good thought! it can't hurt, anyway! I think epsom salts will be the best option, as he loves it when I put them in his bath. I just need to do it on a more regular basis to have an effect!

Oh, and yay for Aubrey, I didn't even know she was pregnant!
post #6 of 21
Kristina thanks for the update. I hope things keep getting more stable for you and your family and the baby on the way. Good luck!

spughy, glad you had a good trip. I've been caught on the I-5 in those crazy Seattle monsoons before.. Is your thyroid messing up TTC (ignore if this is too nosy)? I hope it gets "fixed" soon.

With the independence of learning to crawl and eat non-mama food (aka solids), Nora has decided that she needs to make extra sure that I'm near her at all times. I can usually sneak away from her on the bed during her early morning nap for 20 minutes to take a shower, but at night she needs to touch the whole time. And I need to be within eyesight during the day. I remember that this passes, but it's exhausting! Neela's a bit fed up of not having babyless time together, too.
post #7 of 21
Oh Mel I remember those days, but I can't believe Nora's there (and crawling, even!) already.

Kristina. Congratulations on the job and the newbie! It sounds like things are maybe starting to settle down for you?

Off to stalk Zjande, I didn't know her newbie was on the outside yet I think Mary and I have the same EDD, and Ezra and Skye were born within two days of each other, so I'm excited for December now.

Mary, I'm sorry about the boob thing. No bright ideas, but I really hope it passes soon. I know mine are ridiculously sensitive this time around, so the idea of someone not only nursing but twiddling...ick.
post #8 of 21
I've been MIA for I don't even remember how long and I just wanted to check in and see how ya'll are doing!

Keagan and I are doing pretty well. Half of the week he lives about an hour and a half away from me with Allison and half of the week I've got him, so that is hard. Other than that things are pretty good. Hope everyone is keeping warm and healthy
post #9 of 21
Thanks for checking in, Susannah! I hope things continue to go well with you and Kegan.

Neela's birthday is on Sunday (eek!). I can't believe it's four years.
post #10 of 21
wow. we must have been off line a lot this month, eh? i know nov will be busy as we all celebrate the births of our precious ones! hope to catch up with you all though.

today, we're dressing up as the three little pigs and DH is going to be the wolf but as the grandma. his costume is so hilarious. we had so much fun putting it together, too!

some friends are coming over this afternoon to paint little pumpkins and bob for apples. then, we'll go hang out with our BFFs tonight.

our plans for bali are going strong! hoping to be there in january for a couple of months. getting so excited. this time around, i will be looking to complete my NARM requirements. i am reading midwifery texts till my eyes hurt. there is a study group here that has been helpful and inspiring. meeting at my house once a month helps make it more approachable to go.
post #11 of 21
I have a four year old

Trick or treating was a bust! Neela decided that she didn't like saying thank you, and asked to go home after three houses I'm trying to figure out how to deal her social stuff right now- she isn't shy in most situations, but really struggles with the formal politeness with anyone but Matt and I right now. To her, saying please or thank you is a fate worse than death, and even the benefits of candy don't outweigh the downsides.

We're having two neighbour friends over for a party this afternoon, then my sister and some other great adult friends for a birthday dinner this evening. Off to cook and clean.

We bought Neela the Camelot Jr. game for her birthday, and it's a hit. I thought I'd pass it on in case anyone else is looking for a great game/puzzle- it can be played alone or co-operatively, has several levels and quality wooden pieces. And a princess theme...
http://www.puzzlemaster.ca/browse/st...30-camelot-jr-
post #12 of 21
Happy birthday Neela!!!!!

Rowan enjoyed her trick or treating. She also went to two parties earlier in the day, one of which was the birthday party for a friend, who 5 hours later had a high fever and difficulty breathing. Dun dun DUNNNNNN..... So we have been exposed to swine flu, I suppose - but I think we were a couple of weeks ago too when we were in Seattle, and nothing came of that. But the little girl I look after (and whose mama looks after Rowan) a couple days a week is only 2 and has chronic asthma that's triggered by viral infections, so I'm not sure if her mama is going to want Rowan around after she was frolicking with sick people. What's the incubation period on this one anyway? I can't get a straight answer from the internet - I've seen 2 days and 7 days. And can you infect people before you get sick yourself?
post #13 of 21
Spughy, from the CDC:

"People infected with seasonal and 2009 H1N1 flu shed virus and may be able to infect others from 1 day before getting sick to 5 to 7 days after. This can be longer in some people, especially children and people with weakened immune systems and in people infected with the new H1N1 virus."

http://www.cdc.gov/h1n1flu/qa.htm

Yikes! Hope Rowan stays healthy!

Happy Birthday, Neela! Mel, she sounds so like Ella, who is Constance Contraire (from The Mysterious Benedict Society book, and fits her to a T) and is the least socially conforming child I have!
post #14 of 21
Well, that's helpful. How do I know when it's one day *before* she gets sick?!?! Thanks, gingerstar - I appreciate the info even if it requires some kind of time-manipulation device.
post #15 of 21
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well, that's helpful. How do i know when it's one day *before* she gets sick?!?! Thanks, gingerstar - i appreciate the info even if it requires some kind of time-manipulation device.
post #16 of 21
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Happy Birthday, Neela! Mel, she sounds so like Ella, who is Constance Contraire (from The Mysterious Benedict Society book, and fits her to a T) and is the least socially conforming child I have!
Adding this to my library list
post #17 of 21
Hi, everyone! I came searching and finally found you all!

Happy birthday to all our kiddos this month! What kind of birthday plans does everyone have? We'll do a little party the weekend after Ellie's birthday so grandparents and other family can come, along with a few friends from school. Ellie's doing very well... we're all doing well and staying busy.
post #18 of 21
Happy birthday gunter and Ezra!!

Magically with turning four, Neela has been dry overnight and we're not using night diapers (also coincided with a week of being *very* strict about no dairy, so possibly correlated).

My big girl is having a weekend at grandma's house
post #19 of 21
Hey, mamas! Happy birthday to our early DDC babes and mamas!!

I am feeling so much love and gratitude toward our little group right now. In many ways, it feels like we got over such great hurdles together, those really tough early breastfeeding years, challenging toddlerhoods, changing dynamics... And now, 4 year olds!

So I started a new thread, which I called a fall thread instead of a November thread, hoping maybe it would carry us through December. No wonder that our posting rhythms have slowed down...maybe seasonal fits us better now?

http://www.mothering.com/discussions...0#post14643190
post #20 of 21
well, it happened. ezra turned four! what in the world?

happy birthday, november babes and mamas!
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