Originally Posted by joates
I hate to sound mean, but your family needs a lesson in genetics. If the person you were with who is black has any slave ancestry, there is a good chance he is not 100% black and sometimes recessive genes can be overwhelming.
Not to mention that the OP's "Asian boy" is only half Asian.
My sibs and I are 1/2 Asian, 1/2 white. I married an Asian man, and my sister married a brown haired, brown eyed Caucasian.
My kids are all brown haired and brown eyed. My sister (whose coloring is quite similar to mine... brown hair and hazel eyes), has little boys who are red heads with blue or gray eyes. When we were newborns, this sister and I were both blonde with blue eyes.
There are a lot of red-heads and blondes on my dad's side of the family. Dad's a red-head, his sister is a red-head, and my grandfather was a redhead. My grandmother was blonde, and all have blue eyes.