First of all, welcome to MDC!
you'll get no namecalling here at all!
I am so sorry you had to deal with immaturity like that.
I really hope that you stick around and see how wonderful this place is. I wish so much that I had Mothering when I was a young mama. These people are simply invaluable and full of information.. and they LOVE to help!
With that said, your baby is adorably adorable!! I'd seriously be willing to bet money that she is Victor's (well, I mean, if I actually had any money to bet, I would haha). I have quite a few friends with biracial little ones and how strong their AA features are vary widely. But, as soon as I saw the picture of her, before I even looked at Victor's picture, I saw some AA features in her. Putting her picture next to his, though? Wow, she really does look a lot
like him. I don't see white skin on her, I see a very light AA skin. Her hair doesn't appear to have a white texture to it (nor asian). Her nose and Victor's nose are practically identical. I seriously see no resemblence whatsoever to the asian boy. None. Zero. And given the circumcstances of the situation and timing of everything, even without the pictures, I would still lean toward her being Victor's.
I'm so sorry your family is giving you such a hard time about this. As much of a pain in the butt as it will be, I do agree with some of the others. I think you do need to get a DNA test.. NOT because I have any doubt that she's Victor's, but because of the way your family is acting about the situation. They aren't going to shut up about it until they're proven wrong. They cannot deny a DNA test and will have to face what they don't want to. They will come around eventually, I'm sure.
Hang in there, mama.