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I'm trying to focus on how much more convenient it will be to travel in January (courts close in december) for so many reasons, plus a little more time to prepare, but I want them home NOW!!! I *may* still get to go in november, but I highly doubt it...
I'd also be interested in an update from you. Adoption has been weighing heavily on my mind lately, and I've always had a soft spot in my heart for Africa. Unfortunately the cost of going through an agency is extremely prohibitive for us and it would be quite some time before we would be able to afford that.
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I do realize you must be super busy and prob. not on here at all. When you do get a chance... Do you happen to know of any other U.S, citizens living abroad and adopting from Uganda. I have questions to which I just cannot find the answers, as it is so rare. I would be so thrilled to talk to someone, if you know of anyone else.
oh, and we had a few different things contribute to our delay, most notably someone in Uganda took issue with the increase in adoptions happening, and told the canadian and US embassies that the adoptions/legal guardianships were illegal. This person has since been fired, and was totally wrong, but the embassies needed official confirmation from different branches of the Ugandan gov, and it was a huge mess. that stalled things for 4 months, but because of that stall, other things were stalled as well -- if that hadn't happened, I think NZ wouldn't have had a problem issuing the kids visas and we wouldn't have had to move -- oh, and before that, we were delayed in getting our approval from the US gov because my husband had to do his fingerprints 3 times and having them done in NZ was a bit of a gong show... If we hadn't had the fingerprint issues we would have been in Uganda (stuck there) when the embassy stopped issuing visas for the kids to leave Uganda, and we could never have afforded for us to be there for 4 months waiting for visas... then after the embassy situation cooled off, our VERY CAREFUL lawyer (bless his heart) was hesitant to start the machine up again, and the judges were hesitant, everyone was hesitant and discussing everything, then there was a court recess for the summer... just one thing after another, really...
Thanks so much, Tiffani!
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Our situation is actually quite similar, as the country we are in does not allow anyone to adopt without it being through one of the three existing programs (which deal with very few countries). We are not able to move out for at least 3 years and might like to stay here, anyway. I wonder how long we would need to love in the US in order to just go through them and bypass this (in this matter stupid) country.
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Did you need to use a US social worker for the home study or would the US accept anyone who is certified in the country you live in or whatever? I am just so stuck and don't even know where to begin to truly research all this. On one hand I am finding out that dh's US citizenship would not help us at all since we now live here... On the other, that it might help. I have no clue.
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I guess we would need to have guardianship and a US visa for the child and travel there.... Then we would have to wait until the adoption was final (how long might this take?) and maybe then we would be able to return home. If it is so, it does not sound doable for us. :(
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My husband and I are from New Zealand, yet it seems really restrictive here to adopt from any african country. We were aware of the Ugandan option but get stale-mated by NZ law. How did you manage to adopt Ugandan children while in NZ? Is it because you are citizens elsewhere, or because you went through the process after leaving NZ?
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Open to any suggestions, we have one son but would love to add two or three extra to our family!!
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yes, sorry jadagrace, it would be difficult while living in NZ to adopt from Uganda. At the same time, NZ is so very logical, I wonder if you might be able to convince the powers that be that their laws are outdated and perhaps you could get them changed? It would at least be worth a try -- might take years, but I think it takes a few years just to get through the homestudy process anyway, so you could give it a shot?  When I talked to the folks at the department of child welfare (or whatever the agency is called that deals with adoptions there) they were very helpful in trying to find a workable solution for us, but in the end, nothing could be done. Best wishes!!
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You can use a US social worker, or someone who is certified in your country of residence, but the homestudy must then be approved by a US agency, I believe... or maybe we just had to do that because our homestudy lady was independently certified, so she had to send our homestudy to a US agency and they looked it over and approved it for $600.
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you should look into adopting as americans living abroad, that would be your official status, using your husband's citizenship. Your country of residence will also have it's own laws surrounding issuing your adopted children visas. The biggest sticky point for us was that in uganda they only issue you legal guardianship -- with a full adoption order, NZ would have let the kids in on the same visas our bio kids had.
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There are a few states where you can finalize an adoption fairly quickly. Hawaii is one of them, Texas another... Hawaii also does quickie passports, so a lot of americans living abroad stop off in hawaii to finalize their child's adoptions, get their passport, then return to their country of residence.
We are thinking baout adopting from Uganda and am wondering if we should do it with an attorney for less money. Please email me and let me know how it all is going. Thanks!
Jill
Adoption Advocates International in Washington
http://adoptionadvocates.org/about/about_aai.php
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this is a wonderful program looking to find families for older and special needs kiddos.