tmi question

[gravel10]

sorry this is kinda gross but i have ?

been doing the baby dance for the last 4 days
i am on fertile day 4 on my ov watch

but it seems every time my dh pulls out after ejaculating
it all spills out

he stays in for a lil bit and i been using a pillow under myself

does anyone else have this prob.

any ideas on how to keep it in .

tonight is my last shot and maybe early tomorrow morning as my dh is leaving for Pittsburgh to see the steelers tomorrow. He had it planned for mths.

sorry for the tmi just not sure where to look this stuff up

[HippieChristianMum]

a TMI answer to your TMI question

I know exactly what you are talking about, and I think this is pretty common. I am not a professional by any means, but I think that there is just so much volume there that a lot of the "extra" comes out, while the rest stays in there. I know for me, I have that occur (we usually have to head straight for the bathroom after we DTD, with me walking to the bathroom with my hand 'down there' to catch whatever comes out before I get to the toilet, sorry for the TMI) but then I still have more trickle out through the night and next day.

As for if this can affect conception? I don't know and am probably not a good source of info as DH and I tend to not a have problem conceiving. I am currently pregnant as a result of DTD about 3 or 4 days before ovulating using the withdrawal method. Our first two children were conceived when we weren't trying hard not to.

However, since I know for me that there is still "stuff" coming out for a while afterward (when he doesn't withdrawal), I'm guessing there is enough sperm in there for conception.

I don't know if that will help or not, but that's my experience.

[Noelle C.]

There's no such thing as TMI with this stuff. We're adults, we have sex, don't worry or blush.

Enough stays in. Don't you worry about that! For as much as it looks like comes out, there's still plenty inside. People get pregnant off of pre-ejaculate (otherwise I wouldn't be here!). So a full orgasm inside you is plenty.

[gravel10]

ahh thanks . I never want to embarrass anyone hahaha.... Here i am hoping I want to be preggo so so so bad. Of course I am watching baby story as I type and crying... thanks

[crazyrunningmama]

Okay, here's even more TMI... apparently if you orgasm during intercourse, your cervix kind of sucks the semen up there where it is supposed to go. So tell your dh to work extra hard.

[gravel10]

heheh thanks, I did read that recently as well. It is a good thing to know and well just a good thing period >