I have 4 kids, and we have gone off and on to the WBV. With each kid it just became a pointless experience, waste of money I don't have, and total stress filled germ fest, lol.
I have a GREAT ped now, love her! She's wonderfull with my kids. My youngest was born at 36weeks exactly (so he was probably only 34 3/4 weeks 'cause they were off on dates- hubby was only home 1 weekend lol) and was having breathing troubles. He also had bad jaundice and I got the house ped- who was supposed to be the ped I had in the past. Luckily it was our new ped and she was fantastic! She has bent over backwards for my kids! She is avalible by email- and that's a must with ped's in my book! and she also will get on the phone her self and help. I Love her.
She has said though that the point of the WBV is to chronicle size and weight and shots. She said that the visits aren't even in order with baby's developmental milestones and if we aren't vaxing- then let's switch the visits to correlate with baby's milestones so we know that your baby is developing well, and gaining weight well. She's been an awesome ped. She would prefer us to vax, but given our history she understands why we don't vax.
I hope you, OP, find someone that you can feel comfortable with if your LO does have problems or get's sick, because there is nothing worse than a jack a#* of a doctor giving you the riot act when you've got a sick kid and are scared for your child. It's not fun- and many of us have BTDT and would rather never go there again
Good luck with your Vaxes research- there's lots of links here on MDC and helpfull momma's with more knowledge than one could shake a stick at! Blessed Be!!!