This isn't what I want, but it's a possibility of what may happen. Long story short, insurance is making our home birth pretty much impossible, won't cover what their policy states, this baby isn't head-down, and we can't afford to pay out-of-pocket for what's needed to try turning her since all that money's going to insurance premiums for nothing to be covered. I'm already against the odds in a pregnancy lasting this long (longer story I won't get into), and I have a midwife, not an OB/GYN, so no head-down baby means it's illegal for the midwife to be around.
Since I technically could go into labor any time now (even though I'm just shy of 36 weeks), we have to now look at all possibilities. Since I have no OB/GYN, if this baby stay transverse or goes back full breech, I'll have to go to the ER. Since I have an extensive medical history, I can say hello to a c-section. No doctor would allow an attempt at a vaginal breech birth for someone with a medical history who he/she has never met before. All the risks aside (for me, a 50% of the worst outcome, which I've accepted at this point as possible, though it doesn't make me happy)...
...what happens when you go into an ER in labor and it's going to be a c-section? Especially when it's an ER at a hospital you've never been to. What do you do? When you walk in and tell them you're in labor what happens? Do you have to wait in the waiting room or do the hurry you through triage and get you on a bed in the back? Is it any faster to get to see a doctor than waiting, or is labor considered a level 3 or 4 triage and you can wait like everyone else? What can be expected when you do get to see a doctor and you explain quickly your medical history? Would they put me under general or would my fiance get to be there? If I could die (50% chance) I don't want to go under general. I want him there with me.
In my experience with ERs, it can be a long wait, even when you're dying (I once sat in the waiting room for, I swear, ten full hours with a tear in my intestine and my abdomen visibly swelling and a high fever from it). I suppose, if the baby goes breech, this could work in my favor because maybe she'd get to be born on her own vaginally while waiting. If she's transverse, she can't come out, so then what?
I know, I KNOW, this sounds stupid, but I don't have the luxury of not considering the worst scenario any of us would want to fathom for delivery. We don't have the money to have many other options at this point, nor do we have the time to consider much else. I've accepted I've got a higher chance of not living, and I'm getting to the point of apathetic thanks to being tired of life and just wanting it to be over already. I just don't know what else to expect. The unknown is what scares me, not death, just not knowing what to expect.
So I guess the long questions short is:
What should I expect if delivery ends up being via c-section in an ER I've never been to?
Since I technically could go into labor any time now (even though I'm just shy of 36 weeks), we have to now look at all possibilities. Since I have no OB/GYN, if this baby stay transverse or goes back full breech, I'll have to go to the ER. Since I have an extensive medical history, I can say hello to a c-section. No doctor would allow an attempt at a vaginal breech birth for someone with a medical history who he/she has never met before. All the risks aside (for me, a 50% of the worst outcome, which I've accepted at this point as possible, though it doesn't make me happy)...
...what happens when you go into an ER in labor and it's going to be a c-section? Especially when it's an ER at a hospital you've never been to. What do you do? When you walk in and tell them you're in labor what happens? Do you have to wait in the waiting room or do the hurry you through triage and get you on a bed in the back? Is it any faster to get to see a doctor than waiting, or is labor considered a level 3 or 4 triage and you can wait like everyone else? What can be expected when you do get to see a doctor and you explain quickly your medical history? Would they put me under general or would my fiance get to be there? If I could die (50% chance) I don't want to go under general. I want him there with me.
In my experience with ERs, it can be a long wait, even when you're dying (I once sat in the waiting room for, I swear, ten full hours with a tear in my intestine and my abdomen visibly swelling and a high fever from it). I suppose, if the baby goes breech, this could work in my favor because maybe she'd get to be born on her own vaginally while waiting. If she's transverse, she can't come out, so then what?
I know, I KNOW, this sounds stupid, but I don't have the luxury of not considering the worst scenario any of us would want to fathom for delivery. We don't have the money to have many other options at this point, nor do we have the time to consider much else. I've accepted I've got a higher chance of not living, and I'm getting to the point of apathetic thanks to being tired of life and just wanting it to be over already. I just don't know what else to expect. The unknown is what scares me, not death, just not knowing what to expect.
So I guess the long questions short is:
What should I expect if delivery ends up being via c-section in an ER I've never been to?






. I am so sorry you are in this situation.

