with dd1 (in a hospital) i had an episiotomy, tearing, and of course, stitches.
with dd2 (uc) i had nothing, though i feel as though there was some minor tearing. i felt as though things werent the same down there since the birth, but dh insisted that it looked fine. all is healed up well, but it still feels.... split? sort of. (i could attempt to explain if neccesary)
i definitely plan to have more perenial care a la dh during labor this time around, but im wondering if i should be concerned? should i do anything specific/extra to ensure things dont get worse? etc.
thanks!
with dd2 (uc) i had nothing, though i feel as though there was some minor tearing. i felt as though things werent the same down there since the birth, but dh insisted that it looked fine. all is healed up well, but it still feels.... split? sort of. (i could attempt to explain if neccesary)
i definitely plan to have more perenial care a la dh during labor this time around, but im wondering if i should be concerned? should i do anything specific/extra to ensure things dont get worse? etc.
thanks!
