I recently converted to CD. It seems like different solutions work for different babies and you really do have to buy a few things you end up not liking before you find a good system.
I would recommend not buying a lot of diapers before you try a few different ones. I bought single diapers that had gotten good reviews on diaperpin, trying them one by one. I've seen a number of posts from people who went out and bought a whole stash of a particular kind of diaper without doing test runs, and are now trying to sell off a whole bunch of expensive diapers that didn't work well for their LO. I am pretty happy I did not do that.
About the aplix... I tried some snap diapers and I actually prefer the aplix because it is more adjustable, you can vary the tightness however you want instead of being confined to a particular snap setting.
I agree it can be annoying in the wash but it really depends on the cut of the diaper. The BumGenius 3.0 dipes have exposed aplix on the OUTSIDE of the tab (why? dunno) and there is no way you can cover it up. The Softbums that make up the majority of my stash are well designed so you can easily cover up all of the aplix, and I never have problems with them sticking to stuff in the washer.
The other problem I hear about aplix is toddlers figuring out how to undo their own dipes... my LO is only 5 months old so we will cross that bridge when we come to it.
