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post #1 of 49
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I wanted to start a thread to talk about things we can do to be more frugal for what can be a rather expensive American holiday. I know I spend about $100 on Thanksgiving alone. We usually have a fair number of people and I love making hors d'ouevres that often take spendy ingredients. The turkey itself is usually one of the less pricey items. I like to decorate with fall decorations, too, although I already have a lot of that stuff.

So, what are your hints for making Thanksgiving less expensive? What do you usually splurge on to make it a nice holiday for your family? If you're Canadian, I know you have had your Thanksgiving already, and others OUS have similar holidays at other times of the year... any and all hints are welcome!
post #2 of 49
post #3 of 49
I'll be curious about this, too.

We aren't hosting this year, but we're undecided about which side of the family to visit (totally a money thing--one is a 10 hour, stay several day, trip, and one is 60 minutes away--just waiting to see what our cash flow looks like).

One thing that we have done in recent years is add in some simple side dishes. Cheap stuff, but things that we all love. For us, that's butter beans (from the garden, frozen in summer, so that they become a big treat--look what we saved back from summer!!), as well as some sort of home-pickled treat (again, from the garden, and it becomes a labor of love, which adds to the specialness of the dish, without adding to the cost (we like pickled beets, dilly beans, and/or pickled peaches).
post #4 of 49
TG can be pretty cheap, really, since it uses seasonal foods. What are the things you usually spend the most on? What is your usual menu, in general?
post #5 of 49
I think the key is to skip the fancy stuff!

Some frugal side dishes that my family does:
-Potatos (almost any way you cook them they are cheap)
-Apples and cranberries (fill up the crockpot with cubed apples and a little water, cook several hours, add a little sugar and a bag of cranberries right before serving).
-Green bean casserole with canned beans or frozen beans from the garden. You can make a white sauce yourself instead of buying cream soup.
-some kind of bread, very cheap made from scratch

Dessert is pumpkin pie which is pretty cheap to make.

For appetizers, we just do a raw veggie platter and some kind of crackers and dip.
post #6 of 49
I also think TG is one of the more naturally frugal holidays. We have a traditional dinner, and the ingredients are very reasonably priced. I'm h'orderves impaired. If I'm cooking a big meal, these are a lame afterthought. When I get really fancy, I'll put some cheese on a plate. We bake our own desserts, and if we bought fancy baked goods from a nice bakery, I suppose that could be expensive, but we don't. We serve a nice but not super expensive wine with dinner, which I suppose you could skip to cut costs.

Christmas dinner, on the other hand, may kill me. The standard for our family is filet or rack of lamb, with the corresponding high end red wine, and it's going to be about 25 people. I haven't had to cook it for years though, so I shouldn't complain.
post #7 of 49
Thanksgiving is pretty cheap for us.

I get turkeys from our local grocery store. They always have deals where you spend $50 and get a free turkey. And I always end up with 2. Potatoes are cheap/free for us always, I buy boxed stuffing (I know, but I like it and it's easy) really cheap right around Thanksgiving. We usually have green beans with bacon (frozen from the garden and bacon from the pigs we raised), rolls I make myself. Pumpkin cheesecake from pumpkins I raised.

I think the most expensive part of Thanksgiving for us is the wine.
post #8 of 49
I agree that Thanksgiving can be cheap. And I can get a free turkey from our local grocery, too. Normally my side dishes are cornbread dressing, sweet potatoes, sometimes green bean casserole or some years I'll make broccoli instead, rolls either store bought or made myself if I'm feeling really ambitious, a second veggie dish which may vary year by year, pumpkin pie and pecan pie. Wine is just our usual merlot or chianti but I'll get a special wine for Christmas.
post #9 of 49
Well, for us, its just DH, DS and myself, so that helps. I think that people with large family/friends could definately have people bring a dish, drinks, wine, etc. Then its not all on one person/family to make and its fun to share favorites.

I appreciate the free turkey advise, I never really looked for that. We typically have left overs for eons so that really helps. Also, we just do the average sweet potatoes, turkey, cranberry sauce, stuffing, mash potatoes, green beans and pumpkin pie. So, nothing out of the ordinary. One year we ate a chinese buffet -- interestingly different but I missed all the leftovers, but not the clean up.
post #10 of 49
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Usually it's the hors d'oeuvres and wine that get us, not the actual meal. We usually have people here for a few hours before we actually sit down to eat the meal. For that reason, we have a lot of pre-dinner food and drink that has to last a while. Most of the people that join us are traveling, so they are not able to bring things. And they don't trust themselves with the wine pairing, either. They do bring dishes, but I'm kind of expected to supply most of it. What I've planned this year for dinner (for 10 - 12 adults):

Hors d'oeuvres:
Lobster Mousse Bouchee
Brie en croûte & assorted cheeses with bread and crackers
Börek (this is a turkish hot appetizer using phyllo dough)
Assorted canapés... a few different meats and this can raise the grocery bill
Stuffed mushrooms with a sherry cream sauce
Wines to match these

Dinner:
Turkey
Homemade stuffing (scratch with store-bought bread, but home-grown herbs)
Homemade yeast rolls
sauteed green beans (green beans from Aldi, so not expensive at all)
corn casserole (not expensive... from scratch with frozen corn and corn meal)
bean salad (I use canned beans for this, so I could make from dried and it would be less expensive)
oven roasted asparagus and potatoes
Wines to match dinner

Dessert:
White chocolate cheesecake (homemade)
Peach cobbler (homemade, using home canned peaches)
Coffee

Everything is made from scratch, but the ingredients for some of these things can get expensive.
post #11 of 49
TG is starting to become a bit more frugal for us, now that we live closer to family. Whoever is hosting handles the turkey and the rest of us (depending on how many) make a menu & then split it up for us to bring or prepare at the house. Wine works in that every family brings a bottle or a 6pk of beer if they choose.

Also if you don't have that many guests - don't splurge and get a whole turkey just get the breast only or even look at chickens or other fowl.

Last year our sides were really yum and cheap too:
Butternut squash risotto
Oven Roasted Sweet Potatoes (with cinnamon/brown sugar)
Green Bean Casserole
Homemade cran sauce
homemade squash pie (see butternut squash from above) - tastes just like pumpkin

My concern is the decorations - does anyone have suggestions on those, or just to homemake them?
post #12 of 49
Lobster Mousse Bouchee
Brie en croûte & assorted cheeses with bread and crackers
Börek (this is a turkish hot appetizer using phyllo dough)
Assorted canapés... a few different meats and this can raise the grocery bill
Stuffed mushrooms with a sherry cream sauce
Wines to match these


All of those sounds expensive and excssively fancy to me (Not in a mean way- just that you don't need to be that fancy!).

If you want to save money, why not do:
-veggies tray
-cheese and crackers (mix plain old cheddar in with fancier cheese to stretch the fancy stuff)
-baked hot dip of some kind (spinach and artichoke?)
-chips and salsa
-mixed nuts

Of course if you are set on the fancy apps that is fine- but you kind of lose the right to whine about how much they cost when you choose to serve anything with the word lobster in it, LOL.
post #13 of 49
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Originally Posted by SuzyLee View Post
Lobster Mousse Bouchee
Brie en croûte & assorted cheeses with bread and crackers
Börek (this is a turkish hot appetizer using phyllo dough)
Assorted canapés... a few different meats and this can raise the grocery bill
Stuffed mushrooms with a sherry cream sauce
Wines to match these


All of those sounds expensive and excssively fancy to me (Not in a mean way- just that you don't need to be that fancy!).

If you want to save money, why not do:
-veggies tray
-cheese and crackers (mix plain old cheddar in with fancier cheese to stretch the fancy stuff)
-baked hot dip of some kind (spinach and artichoke?)
-chips and salsa
-mixed nuts

Of course if you are set on the fancy apps that is fine- but you kind of lose the right to whine about how much they cost when you choose to serve anything with the word lobster in it, LOL.
O.K. I'll shut up and quit whining.
post #14 of 49
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Originally Posted by SuzyLee View Post
Of course if you are set on the fancy apps that is fine- but you kind of lose the right to whine about how much they cost when you choose to serve anything with the word lobster in it, LOL.
Depending on where one lives lobster is not always expensive. I live in Maine and can get lobster straight off the boat cheaper than ground beef and that is not an exxageration. This summer my dh & I each had 1.5lbs lobsters for less than $10. I know living up here almost all seafood is pretty cheap, shrimp season I get fresh shrimp for .99 a lb.
post #15 of 49
Well, those are certainly some pricey appetizers.

If I wanted to knock some dollars off that list, but still serve a bunch of nice appetizers I might do the following:

Hummus, pita and veggies
Mini quiches (make ahead and freeze)
Homemade cheese ball and crackers. You can make the cheese balls out of shredded block cheddar, cream cheese and herbs, and roll in chopped nuts.
Bruschetta

I'd skip the fancy wine parings and go with a house red or white.

But I'd never in a million years make a whole spread like that before a big dinner.
post #16 of 49
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Originally Posted by shayinme View Post
Depending on where one lives lobster is not always expensive. I live in Maine and can get lobster straight off the boat cheaper than ground beef and that is not an exxageration. This summer my dh & I each had 1.5lbs lobsters for less than $10. I know living up here almost all seafood is pretty cheap, shrimp season I get fresh shrimp for .99 a lb.
And my recipe calls for just one lobster tail, so there isn't even that much meat in the dish. I'll spend less on lobster per pound than I will cheese.

Other people have mentioned getting free turkeys. I've never found that. The best price I found last year was $1.29/lb. Now, I still think that's a good price, but free has never been an option.

And this is not just about *my* Thanksgiving, but a general thread for anyone to give a helpful holiday tip... from travel to turkey and everywhere in between.
post #17 of 49
If you carved your jack o laterns recently, you can cut them up, remove the rind (as well as any soft/black parts), and cube the pumpkin flesh. Then boil the cubes, and you have your pumpkin puree for pie. Freeze in qt bags.

Watch 10 for $10 sales for olives for the relish tray.

Reduce your menu by 25%-33%. That's how much of the typical TG meal ends up in the trash. Not leftovers, but trash.

We usually have about 8 people. All time high was 13.

For orderves (yeah, I took 7 years of French, I know how to spell it... but we as Americans don't even come close to the correct pronounciation, so we may as well spell it phonetically for English), we do stuffed mushrooms, too, but they're cheap- breadcrumbs, mushroom stems, wine, butter and seasonings make up the stuffing. We also have a relish tray, homemade sesame crackers, and some type of cheeseball or similar. Orderves cost us maybe $10.

Then we have soup- either squash or clam chowder- with homemade biscuits or similar. A giant can of clams from GFS costs $6, so the most this course costs is another $10.

We have a nearby cranberry bog, so we get our sauce for almost free.

Turkeys are free if you look around/plan ahead (by like a year).

We use our pureed pumpkin in homemade ravioli. That's cheap, because the pumpkin was already paid for under the Halloween budget, and the other ravioli ingredients cost maybe $2. It is time consuming, though.

We do sweet potato pecan pie, that's pretty expensive because of the nuts. Probably $5 in nuts alone, so about a $7-$8 pie.

We also do apple pie, but we forage the apples, so that's all but free.

We also usually have cheesy potatoes, veggie casserole, stuffing, gravy, and seven layer salad. All these things together cost maybe $20. Potatoes and onions come from our cellar, bread for stuffing is homemade at $1 a loaf, we make mayo and have tons of bacon in the freezer for salad dressing, have butter in the freezer, along with peas, almost always have eggs just kicking around ... so we'd need to buy $6 in cheese, celery $1, broccoli $3, carrots $1, cauliflower $2, lettuce $3, fresh tomatoes $3, cream $2.

So, total, that's about $50. Not including wine, though. Usually, our guests bring this.
post #18 of 49
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Originally Posted by EFmom View Post
Well, those are certainly some pricey appetizers.

If I wanted to knock some dollars off that list, but still serve a bunch of nice appetizers I might do the following:

Hummus, pita and veggies
Mini quiches (make ahead and freeze)
Homemade cheese ball and crackers. You can make the cheese balls out of shredded block cheddar, cream cheese and herbs, and roll in chopped nuts.
Bruschetta

I'd skip the fancy wine parings and go with a house red or white.

But I'd never in a million years make a whole spread like that before a big dinner.
Those are some good ideas. We have a couple of older (single) people from my mom's church come on Thanksgiving and the hors d'oeuvres are a big hit every year. They usually show up around noon and we sit down to eat after 4:00, so having something to put in your belly while drinking wine is important, especially the older folk. I don't want my guests drinking on an empty stomach.

The bouchee and börek are similar to quiche (with a pastry crust, that is), so switching those probably wouldn't help with the budget. Thanks for the suggestions!
post #19 of 49
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Originally Posted by leta View Post

we use our pureed pumpkin in homemade ravioli. That's cheap, because the pumpkin was already paid for under the halloween budget, and the other ravioli ingredients cost maybe $2. It is time consuming, though.


yummy!
post #20 of 49
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Originally Posted by Leta View Post
We also have a relish tray
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Then we have soup- either squash or clam chowder- with homemade biscuits or similar. A giant can of clams from GFS costs $6, so the most this course costs is another $10.
I'm going to steal these ideas. I don't like pickles and olives, so I never think of it. I've never served soup, but that would be dead simple and inexpensive. I make a killer pea soup that everyone loves, so that would be a great idea. And a big pot can be made for under $5.
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