Yes, it is so worrying and difficult to make a decision.
Over here Health Canada widely broadcasts the safety of the vaccine... but then will say things like the results of studies have not been released yet, or we don't have enough information to know that it's safe for pregnant women... but just trust us, it's safe for pregnant women!

My dh works as a receptionist at a university and comes into contact with tons of people daily. We all came down with the flu recently. Both kids had fevers of 103 and all the swine flu symptoms. We were advised to keep them at home unless they were in distress with respiration. Dh and I had all the symptoms except for the high fever. We had low fever or no fevers but all the other stuff (aches, pains, runny tummy, sore throat, coughing, sneezing, etc). I had a scary moment one day when the stuff in my chest (that just came on rapidly) blocked my airway completely, and coughing would not clear it.

That really freaked me out. After about 5-10 seconds I could clear it away by coughing and the doctor gave me a puffer.

So worrying, but I figure if we had the virus there's no sense in getting it now, is there?
Dh is really pushing for us to get the H1N1 vaccine and the seasonal flu vaccine. It comes from a place of fear, anxiety and panic.
I want to try to make a decision based on evidence of safety, effectiveness, etc. So hard to do when there's such conflicting info out there. I was reading Mercola too. Interesting stuff.
I will say that after 7 days of sore throat and chest infection, having tried all kinds of natural stuff at home, I finally went for antibiotics and a puffer. Sometimes when you need allopathic meds, you need allopathic meds.
You said it right on Blanca78, this is motherhood.