Oh, Jill, I wish it had been a different diagnosis. Evy will beat the odds -- she is strong and she has her wonderful milk-making mama to get her through.
I've been reading Knockout, subtitled something like Doctors Who Are Beating Cacner. It's by Suzanne Somers and it explores alternative treatments for cancer, nutritional therapies and supplements. It may be worth exploring those along side conventional treatments and getting a hold of some of the doctors. One of the things she writes about is that there is a test to determine which type of chemo is most likely to work on a patient's specific cancer cells. It's not widely done here, but is in Germany.
You and your family are in my thoughts. Sending you lots of strength and beat cancer vibes.
Evy is such a beautiful child!