I am just stuck. I have a few names I really like, but I don't know if any of them are "the" name. I think I've exhausted the baby name books, too . . .
Neither of us like the names the other has suggested. I esp. dont like using his father's name as the middle name, but understand why he wants to and have not put my foot down.* Neither of us can figure out something that goes with it well that we both like. I'm partial to Owen. He's partial to Jason or Joshua.
*(FIL died a year ago, but was a selfish drunk who in his last years did evertyhing he possibly could to be a burde to DH. He mistreated MIL and DH, never paid support, as well as pissed me off royally a number of times. I don't want to use the name b/c of the baggage associated with it, but at least if it's a middle I don't have to use it often.)