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Originally Posted by CincyFam 
Hi, thanks for the reply.
I guess I could have been more clear: my son does not have trouble with the concepts involved in moveable alphabet, and is pretty often able to complete it. However, once or twice a week, it's an issue, and it costs him free choice and/or gym. My feeling, and one I shared with his teachers, is that free choice is an unacceptable cost in Montessori, and wonder if I'm missing something?
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Nope. In fact, I'd even take it a step further. He's not interested in this work because, if what you say is correct, he has already mastered it.
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| Your question about public/private is good, along these lines. It's a private school, 30 or so kids, 13 kindergartners. We've engaged the school on "why," in a couple of different ways, and one of the reasons is "to prepare him for first grade." |
In first grade, is he going to have to do the movable alphabet?
I would use this approach to address the concerns. The reality is people choose Montessori because they want to prepare their children for a lifetime love of learning ~ not to prepare them to do things they don't want to do with life, which seems to be the suggestion here.
As far as the academic aspects go, if he's already able to spell out and read words, he's fine with the standards in first grade, so this has become an unnecessary work. It's actually defeating the goal of what you want from Montessori - which is for the student to love the work and be able to explore the work and materials.
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| It just seems to me that movable alphabet should be an aspect, albeit an important one, to teaching the concepts? |
Right. And what is he learning if he has to do it when he already knows the concepts?
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| Of course, you learn to concentrate on tasks which may not be to your liking, at the moment, but he's 5? In Montessori? Is there any reason to expect him to complete this task, daily, at the predictable exclusion of all others? What I mean is: is this task, movable alphabet, so important that, knowing he's not interested and will not complete it 1 in 5 days and end up excluded from free choice and gym, it's worth it? |
In Montessori, we educate the WHOLE child. This means physically, emotionally, and academically. We don't look at one aspect (gym or choice, for example) as a less important part of the curriculum than reading and math. In fact, the ability to make good choices, develop a love of learning, and to grow healthy are more important to the curriculum since, once those things are developed, the rest comes more naturally.
Angeline Stoll Lillard summed it up well in her book "Montessori: The Science Behind the Genius" She states:
"Dr. Montessori also believed that children who have choices will spontaneously engage with that which they need to further their development." (pg 107)
Some Montessori quotes to consider:
1) "A system of education that is based on liberty ought to aim at assisting a child in obtaining it, and it should have as its specific aim the freeing of the child from those ties which limit its spontaneous manifestations." (Discovery of the Child; pg 54)
2) In regards to missing free choice or gym, which seems more like a punishment system, I point to the same book and chapter. "I then urged the teachers to cease handing out the ordinary prizes and punishments, which were no longer suited to our children, and to confine themselves to directing them gently in their work." Notice the key word..."gently." Other quotes from "The Montessori Method" (Chapter 5) "Discipline must come through liberty."
"We call an individual disciplined when he is master of himself, and can, therefore, regulate his own conduct when it shall be necessary to follow some rule of life." (In other words, we are building discipline not by making them practice arbitrary rules, but by regulating their conduct and developing that ability)
"Since the child now learns to
move rather than to
sit still, he prepares himself not for the school, but for life."
One more big one from the Montessori Method:
"In our system, (the teacher) must become a passive, much more than an active, influence and her passivity shall be composed of anxious scientific curiosity, and of absolute
respect for the phenomenon which she wishes to observe. The teacher must understand and
feel her position of
observer: the
activity must lie in the
phenomenon...We cannot know the consequences of suffocating a
spontaneous action when the child is just beginning to be active: perhaps we suffocate
life itself." (Emphasis in original...and it was a pain in the butt to type all those in. LOL)
I wouldn't, of course, recommend going in there with guns-a-blazin, but explain how you see this is counter to your goals for your child when you signed up for Montessori and what you expected from the school based off what you know. No school is perfect in every aspect and you may have to weigh this against a ton of other good things, but I always liked asking the question, "How is this helping his
Montessori experience?" It really brings the focus of the discussion back to Montessori and not on "having to learn to do boring things in 1st grade." If you want him to learn how to do that, there are many cheaper options available that do it more effectively.