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post #101 of 119
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Originally Posted by Viola View Post
They do that in So CA to an extent. Like when I lived in NoVA, I'd take 66 into wherever, and then go up 395 or 295. Now I might say "the beltway" or "the toll road" but that's about it. But in CA it was always "the 5" "the 405" "the 10" and so on. But I think named roads were not used with the article.
NO NO NO NO NO NOT IN CALIFORNIA!!! They do this in SOUTHERN California which is like a different state than Northern California. They do NOT do it up in the Central Valley or the Bay Area. It is always I5 OR simply 80, 88, 50, whatever. Never THE 5. However they call it the 5 up here in Oregon and I want to pull my hair out. It's I5 people I5.. Standing for Interstate 5. Not the 5.

Oh I'm sorry that drives me freaking insane. Off to finish reading.
post #102 of 119
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Originally Posted by didkisa View Post
Haven't read the whole thread yet, but my biggest peeve is when people use the possessive as plural. Example: The boy's went to town. UGH!!!!!!! The boy's WHAT went to town? father? dog? WHAT?? Plural HAS NO APOSTROPHE!! More forgiving, but still annoying, are the mistakes when the singular form of a word ends in an "s". Example: He took Thomas' pencil. It should be "Thomas's"--but rather unforgiving that the bagel company spells it wrong!
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Originally Posted by MadiMamacita View Post
See, I was taught by a real grammar stickler, and he said that words ending in S, Z, X, etc just take an apotsrophe and not the extra s. I struggle with this one, because my son's name is Phoenix, and I never know how to make his name possessive!
Looks like the chicago style guide oks this use.
from wiki:
"On the other hand, some modern writers omit the extra s in all cases, and Chicago Manual of Style allows this as an “alternative practice”.[15] Generally, Chicago Manual of Style is in line with the majority of current guides, and recommends the traditional practice but provides for several exceptions to accommodate spoken usage, including the omission of the extra s after a polysyllabic word ending in a sibilant."
I was also taught this when I went to a business college. If it ends in S or the S sound you do not add an 'S it is simply S'. I have also had problems with this becuase our last name ends in Z with an S sound. I have had elementary school teachers when I ask them tell me it is z's but sounds stupid cause you are going ses. (of course I have learned that elementary school teachers often don't know what they are talking about in every subject.)

Anyway in this case Thomas' is correct. It should not be Thomas's. (even spell check flagged the second one.)
post #103 of 119
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Originally Posted by annalivia View Post

(And clearly he's a genius for having recognized a pattern of contractions and coming up with that one on his own. Awfully cute, too, if I do say so myself.)
My DD1 said "amn't" for the longest time. I think up until last year (1st grade for her). I also thought she was a language genius for observing contraction patterns and coming up with that one herself. I did not realize it was actually a correct word somewhere. Learn something new...
post #104 of 119
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My DD1 said "amn't" for the longest time. I think up until last year (1st grade for her). I also thought she was a language genius for observing contraction patterns and coming up with that one herself. I did not realize it was actually a correct word somewhere. Learn something new...
Well, clearly she's a genius for having such an expansive vocabulary that it can include archaic contractions!
post #105 of 119
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Originally Posted by AutumnAir View Post
I'm Irish and say 'amn't' and also 'usedn't to'. Drives my DH nuts! But the latter at least was common about 100 years ago! I'm correct, just not entirely current

I've encountered the 'X needs washed' in people from Northern Ireland - funny construction. I would happily say 'X needs washing', but not the other.

The one that really drives me bananas is the use of two modal verbs together, e.g. 'might could', as in "He might could come over tonight." GRRRR!! You only need one!!

I still use "usedn't to". I guess the Irish like contracting "not". And dh is from the north, is a whole other language up there!

I also say "arfter" instead of "after", and used to say "filum" instead of "film", but that last one got teased out of me.
post #106 of 119
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Originally Posted by aniT View Post
My grammar is not poor enough that I care to learn. Fewer vrs. less.. only picky people really care about the difference. The coat needs washed.. well it is said every single day but everyone I know. don't necessarily type the way I speak either. For the most part, what I type is correct. But no.. I was never taught that fewer was quantity and less was mass.
But you know now, so why not start using it correctly? When you know better, you do better and all that.
post #107 of 119
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Originally Posted by aniT View Post
I was also taught this when I went to a business college. If it ends in S or the S sound you do not add an 'S it is simply S'. I have also had problems with this becuase our last name ends in Z with an S sound. I have had elementary school teachers when I ask them tell me it is z's but sounds stupid cause you are going ses. (of course I have learned that elementary school teachers often don't know what they are talking about in every subject.)

Anyway in this case Thomas' is correct. It should not be Thomas's. (even spell check flagged the second one.)
Boxing day in Ireland is St. Stephen's Day. Most people drop the St. part. But then say "Stephen's's Day". Stephenses. Yup. Totally wrong. But pretty much standard English there.
post #108 of 119
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Originally Posted by Irishmommy View Post
But you know now, so why not start using it correctly? When you know better, you do better and all that.
Because knowing the difference between fewer and less in the back of my mind does not equal it coming out of my mouth in every day converstaion.
post #109 of 119
As to singular posessives ending in s (or z or x), I was taught in college that either is correct but whatever you choose should be used consistently in a piece of writing.
post #110 of 119
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Originally Posted by eclipse View Post
As to singular posessives ending in s (or z or x), I was taught in college that either is correct but whatever you choose should be used consistently in a piece of writing.
yes, thats probably right.
I think what I posted earlier from wiki said that S' was more modern and S'S is more traditional, but both are usually accepted.
post #111 of 119
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Originally Posted by annalivia View Post
Yeah, I feel that like a scratch I've got to itch.
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Originally Posted by MadiMamacita View Post
I HATE that one! Why on earth would you scratch at a lesion?
??? I'm confused? Do you not rub or scrape slightly, as with the fingernails, to relieve an irritating skin sensation? Or rather scratch an itch....

straight from dictionary dot com
post #112 of 119
can someone explain how to use further and farther?
post #113 of 119
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Originally Posted by vbactivist View Post
can someone explain how to use further and farther?
DH the dictionary says farther is distance and further is figurative, as in , "He wants to advance his career further."
post #114 of 119
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Originally Posted by aniT View Post
DH the dictionary says farther is distance and further is figurative, as in , "He wants to advance his career further."
thank you now i need a trick to remember the rule...
post #115 of 119
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can someone explain how to use further and farther?
Further is degree or extent - "I will not discuss this further."
Farther is distance - "Let's not walk any farther."
post #116 of 119
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Originally Posted by Right of Passage View Post
??? I'm confused? Do you not rub or scrape slightly, as with the fingernails, to relieve an irritating skin sensation? Or rather scratch an itch....

straight from dictionary dot com
yeah, you scratch an itch. you don't itch a scratch.
post #117 of 119
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Originally Posted by Viola View Post
Wait, what's wrong with party store? Is that a kind of store, or is it something else?
Glad you asked that, I was totally confused. "Why do so many people hate parties and party supplies?! I just don't understaaaand!"

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Originally Posted by seashells View Post
I do hear "I could care less" though (meaning "I couldN'T care less").
Argh I HATE that!

Thanks for explaning the 'S/ S' thing mamas. Since I started going by Kris I have always been paranoid to write anything with an S at the end of my name
post #118 of 119
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Originally Posted by aniT View Post
NO NO NO NO NO NOT IN CALIFORNIA!!! They do this in SOUTHERN California which is like a different state than Northern California.

Oh I'm sorry that drives me freaking insane. Off to finish reading.
ROFL, yeah, SoCal.

The going to church vs. going to the church is interesting. It seems like if I'm attending something on a regular basis, like classes in school or church services then I don't use an article. But I might say "go to the church or school" if I am talking about driving up there to pick something up. It's more that I'm giving my location.

aniT, I thought of you today when we sang Amazing Grace in church. we've no less days to sing God's praise than when we first begun
post #119 of 119
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Originally Posted by Viola View Post
ROFL, yeah, SoCal.

The going to church vs. going to the church is interesting. It seems like if I'm attending something on a regular basis, like classes in school or church services then I don't use an article. But I might say "go to the church or school" if I am talking about driving up there to pick something up. It's more that I'm giving my location.

aniT, I thought of you today when we sang Amazing Grace in church. we've no less days to sing God's praise than when we first begun
It took me a minute to figure out how you could connect me with Amazing Grace.
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