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3.5yo bedwetting and daytime piddling - EC'd since 2mo

post #1 of 10
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DS has almost always wet the bed, it was actually better when he was younger and woke up regularly at night. Because then if he hadn't peed yet I'd take him potty then back to bed.

But now he is mostly sleeping through the night. He does pee right before bed and I try not to let him have too much water (sometimes he asks for it sometimes he doesn't). But then I think at 2-3 in the morning he pees, a LOT. I had Imse Vimse waterproof trainers and was doubling them, but that wasn't enough. I finally got sick of soaked trainers and blankets and bought disposable pull-ups.

He's also been wearing the pull ups at daycare for a while now for naptime.

There are times when he is dry in the morning but not that often, and it seems to be random.

He does have a wheat/gluten intolerance and just started getting seasonal allergies this summer, so he may have more food intolerances. We cut out egg a week ago to see if that helps. Not sure yet so far.

He also has little piddles in his pants every day. Maybe food related, I don't know. I didn't want to have to do a full elimination diet with him so just trying the eggs first since that came up on his ELISA allergy test (although wheat never did and he obviously has issues with it).

Anything else it might be? He's always been one to usually not care if his pants are wet, unless he's really wet he will just run around in wet pants! Do you think that is part of the problem?

And even though we part time EC'd since 2mo, it wasn't until he was 2.5-3 that he started initiating going potty himself and we still have to remind him regularly.
post #2 of 10
I just wanted to say that I am glad to hear I'm not the only one whose kids ec'd but still didn't become potty-consistent until a later age. My oldest just went through a bed-wetting thing, at age 7, and my 4 yr old still has problems in the day. I don't have any real advice though.
post #3 of 10
i would definitely pursue the food allergy/intolerance issues. I think that is the most likely cause.
post #4 of 10
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i would definitely pursue the food allergy/intolerance issues. I think that is the most likely cause.
: dairy would be my next suspect after the things you know he reacts to. Elimination might not be necessary, just not a ton of it in one day.
post #5 of 10
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Dairy...yeah, I really don't want it to be dairy! that is a lot tougher than egg. Cutting out the milk is easy (I only have it for cereal/baking and can do rice milk) but the cheese and butter are hard to cut out. I cannot have soy, so no soy substitutes. I am still nursing, so whatever he can't eat I also can't eat.

Well, so far after a week he's been dry 3 nights which is a little better than usual, and when I fold laundry today I'll see how many underwears he went through. I've still caught him with piddles in the pants but a few times he's also been dry when I didn't expect it.
post #6 of 10
My DS (almost 4) is the same way. I find that if I can take him to the bathroom and have him pee after he's been asleep for an hour or two, that pretty much guarantees he won't pee later on during the night. (He's a sound sleeper, and doesn't wake all the way up when I take him to the bathroom.)

During the day, he often ends up with a wet spot in his underpants. But, interestingly, if he's not wearing pants, he always seems to be able to get to the bathroom before he pees. I suspect that what he eats affects how much he wets his pants and pees in his sleep, but I haven't figured out exactly what the problem foods are. (I think banana is one.) Anyway, it seems like he's gradually peeing less in his pants as he gets older. The wet spots are usually smaller now, and he seems to notice them more, and he's doing a better job of deciding to go to the bathroom as soon as needs to pee.

I guess I don't really have any good advice. I just wanted to say that I have a kid in the same boat, and that mine is showing signs of growing out of it even without me doing an elimination diet or cutting out problem foods (except bananas, which I mostly don't give him anymore.)
post #7 of 10
Okay, I haven't posted here in forever, but I felt compelled to. Like Pam and Abagail, it's good to see that really late grads aren't so abnormal, because it's easy to feel alone out there!

I wouldn't rule out food issues, certainly. We've dealt with them here too. However, it might just be your kid, you know? DS will be 3 in a few days (EC'd from birth), and JUST this past week became responsible for his own pottying. Seriously, no amount of prodding or asking or helping would encourage him along. I asked him a few months ago, and he said he was going to use the potty instead of diapers all the time when he was three (okay, he said when he was five, because he's convinced that he'll be five on his birthday ) and low and behold, 9 days before his birthday, he started telling me when he had to pee. Just like that. No accidents, no false alarms, just him deciding it's time. It wasn't a skill for him that took time to master, he's been doing this his whole life...it was just a decision he made. (In fact, I'm so completely sure it's not a skill thing, it's a decision thing, that I'm not even afraid of cursing it by posting this!) And two weeks ago, this is the kid who would wear wet pants for hours if I let him, who didn't want to go to the potty, who thought diapers were the best thing to happen to him in the whole world. So if your son is like mine, it could just be that too. He might just have to decide it's important to him. Especially if he's been a "poop grad" forever like my DS (since umm 5, 6 months old?) it really might be a priority thing. If they could care less about wet pants, then that's where they are right now. Soon he'll care about wet pants, and then he'll keep them dry.
post #8 of 10
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Thanks!! There have been times where he's ran around nakey bum, and then he is much more apt to take himself potty. I have seen him still start to have little piddles even then, but I think not nearly as much.
post #9 of 10
Ophelia and Lex, I recognize both of your names from babyhood EC'ing days. And here I am, right here with you with another 3 year old who isn't consistently "done" yet.

Ophelia, we also have multiple food issues (just started a GF diet to boot) and so I know that is some of it. My kid is also really small, and I wonder if part of it is just that he has a really small bladder, too (the not dry through the night bit, that is.)

Not much to add, other than that we are soldiering through, too.
post #10 of 10
Thread Starter 
Yep, it's the egg...sigh. this is going to be tough.

he STOPPED having nighttime accidents and daytime piddles this week (2nd week off eggs) until DH fed him potato salad on Thurs
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