I had gestational diabetes with DS (almost 3 yr old now) starting from 3 months of pregnancy. I controlled diabetes with diet till 5 months and had to start insulin after that. My OBGYN advised me to get induced at 38 weeks as that is the norm for people with GD (according to her). Being a first time mom and not knowing my options I agreed for that and they induced me with pitocin. I was not able to tolerate the pain and asked for epidural when I was 3 -4 cm (which I regret till this minute). Within an hour DS's heartrate was dropping and Dr came and checked me - I was 10 cm dialated. I had a very quick progression - went from 3 to 10 cm within an hour.
Dr asked me to try pushing and I had no feeling at all because of the epidural I had before one hour. Then Dr said we need to do emergency c-section for fetal distress. I have a phobia for blood and knife and asked her to avoid csection as much as possible. At the moment I agreed for the Csection as baby's health came as the first priority. DS was born weighing 5 pounds and 9 ozs with cord around his neck and body. He wasnt turning pink after he came out and they had to rush him to the NICU. He was in NICU for 3 days and was given bottle over there. Then he absolutely refused to nurse with all my attempts - had so many visits from LC, tried everything I could SNS, finger feeding etc etc. Finally I started exclusively pumping for him and I could do it only for 6 months.
I had severe postpartem depression may be because of the csection I had and also I started feeling DS was rejecting me as he cried everytime I tried to nurse him. One good thing was I healed great from the c section. I was up and moving within hours of the csection , stopped pain mediacations after 10 days and recovered great with no problems.
Now I am 27 weeks pregnant - diabetes started from day one of pregnancy. Under severe diet control and managing diabetes with insulin. I am seeing the same OBGYN and she insists on 38 weeks scheduled csection this time as well. DH feels that is the safe choice for us because of the high risk pregnancy but my mind is inclined towards a VBAC. I am not sure if I should try for VBAC despite the medical conditions. I do not want to cause any risk to the baby because of my choice or to risk my life as I want to be there for my DS and the baby.
Please give me your frank opinion of what do you think I should do at this situation ? Do you think I am a right candidate for VBAC or should I bite the bullet and go for another csection ? I do not even care about my pain or recovery - all I want is to have a successful breastfeeding this time.
(ETD) My doctor gives prematured placenta and fetal mortality as a reason for csection rather than the size of the baby
update at 36 weeks ( post #18)
Dr asked me to try pushing and I had no feeling at all because of the epidural I had before one hour. Then Dr said we need to do emergency c-section for fetal distress. I have a phobia for blood and knife and asked her to avoid csection as much as possible. At the moment I agreed for the Csection as baby's health came as the first priority. DS was born weighing 5 pounds and 9 ozs with cord around his neck and body. He wasnt turning pink after he came out and they had to rush him to the NICU. He was in NICU for 3 days and was given bottle over there. Then he absolutely refused to nurse with all my attempts - had so many visits from LC, tried everything I could SNS, finger feeding etc etc. Finally I started exclusively pumping for him and I could do it only for 6 months.
I had severe postpartem depression may be because of the csection I had and also I started feeling DS was rejecting me as he cried everytime I tried to nurse him. One good thing was I healed great from the c section. I was up and moving within hours of the csection , stopped pain mediacations after 10 days and recovered great with no problems.
Now I am 27 weeks pregnant - diabetes started from day one of pregnancy. Under severe diet control and managing diabetes with insulin. I am seeing the same OBGYN and she insists on 38 weeks scheduled csection this time as well. DH feels that is the safe choice for us because of the high risk pregnancy but my mind is inclined towards a VBAC. I am not sure if I should try for VBAC despite the medical conditions. I do not want to cause any risk to the baby because of my choice or to risk my life as I want to be there for my DS and the baby.
Please give me your frank opinion of what do you think I should do at this situation ? Do you think I am a right candidate for VBAC or should I bite the bullet and go for another csection ? I do not even care about my pain or recovery - all I want is to have a successful breastfeeding this time.
(ETD) My doctor gives prematured placenta and fetal mortality as a reason for csection rather than the size of the baby
update at 36 weeks ( post #18)







