This is on my mind, as we have an old dog on her way out. I am hoping we'll get through the holidays, but the vet is at the ready for our call if our dog starts to suffer. She has been ill.
I will be so sad when she is gone. So sad. This dog has been in my life longer than my wife and children.
We went from four animals to just this dog in a period of a few years. We had to give our two cats to a friend before making a cross-country move, as they were old cats and we worried very much about their ability to survive the stress of the move.
The leash broke on one of our dogs last February, and he was killed by a car as a result.
The house is going to feel all too empty when this dog is gone. I know it will be hard for me if we don't get another dog within the year.
I also don't think I will feel as safe in my house. We live in a somewhat rough city, and while our dog is as sweet as can be, she does have quite the bark on her. It felt good that we had a big dog around to bark and scare folks off when necessary.
But...
(1) dw wants a break from pets for a while.
(2) I may be going back to school next fall, in which case it would be an unwise time to get a dog...partially because our housing situation will be up in the air.
(3) A huge factor-- perhaps the deciding factor-- is money. We are not doing well financially right now, and it was hard in this last year to afford dog food and especially vet care. Really, really, really hard. Until we can get out financial situation worked out, another dog is not in the cards. It is just not.
(4) I also worry that if we got a dog, I would constantly compare it to this dog. She is just such an awesome dog. Our other dog, the one whose leash broke and was killed by a car, came to us as a puppy and was a crazy one from the start. If he would have listened to me...he wouldn't have died. I don't know if I want to care for another crazy dog right now. I really want to have a dog like this one, but, I know well there are no guarantees in life.
Still, I am a reckless optimist, so since there wasn't an "other" choice and I really couldn't bring myself to select "no," I chose "yes" and even within one year.