Is meconium staining always a cause for alarm? Also, if it occurs during one birth is it more likely (than average) to occur in another birth?
Back story, if you wanna know: I had planned a homebirth and when I was in labor with DD my water broke at the beginning of what I believe was transition. There was fairly heavy light brown/slightly greenish meconium. (Note: DD was not "past due"; she was born on her due date.) My midwife was not present at the time because up until this point my contractions were still far apart (and apparently I was handling them a lot better than I thought I was) so she did not believe I was in labor and basically had refused to come over. So when I called her about the water breaking/meconium she just told us to go to the hospital (when we arrived I was ready to push and DD was not in distress) and DD came out just fine (she had a big poop soon after birth). DH and I are contemplating TTC #2 and I would love to fulfill my dream of having an out of hospital birth (though probably not with the same midwife). However, I am scared of this happening again and having to transfer (the transfer ended up being very expensive because we had to pay both the hospital and the midwife, and insurance covered none of the midwife's (above average) fee since she did not deliver the baby). I asked my midwife about the situation after I gave birth, but I don't feel like I got a straight answer since (I am guessing) she felt guilty about not being there to make a judgment call as to whether the meconium warranted hospital care.
As you can probably tell, I am still having issues with this. So, I'd appreciate any comments anyone could offer
Back story, if you wanna know: I had planned a homebirth and when I was in labor with DD my water broke at the beginning of what I believe was transition. There was fairly heavy light brown/slightly greenish meconium. (Note: DD was not "past due"; she was born on her due date.) My midwife was not present at the time because up until this point my contractions were still far apart (and apparently I was handling them a lot better than I thought I was) so she did not believe I was in labor and basically had refused to come over. So when I called her about the water breaking/meconium she just told us to go to the hospital (when we arrived I was ready to push and DD was not in distress) and DD came out just fine (she had a big poop soon after birth). DH and I are contemplating TTC #2 and I would love to fulfill my dream of having an out of hospital birth (though probably not with the same midwife). However, I am scared of this happening again and having to transfer (the transfer ended up being very expensive because we had to pay both the hospital and the midwife, and insurance covered none of the midwife's (above average) fee since she did not deliver the baby). I asked my midwife about the situation after I gave birth, but I don't feel like I got a straight answer since (I am guessing) she felt guilty about not being there to make a judgment call as to whether the meconium warranted hospital care.
As you can probably tell, I am still having issues with this. So, I'd appreciate any comments anyone could offer











I just can't even imagine the stress you went through.
