Hi mamas,
Long story short, I am considering a third baby after 2 previous sections. About 20 years ago, I was in a car accident where I fractured my pelvis in three places. Hospitalized for a month and had to use a walker for a few months afterward. I get adjusted by the chiro regularly and can tell when the area is out of whack. I chose to go with a very good (ie, not pushy or quick to cut) o/b practice for my births as I knew there was some question as to whether vag birth would be an option and I wanted to be in the hospital "just in case."
I labored with both children, the first for more than 24 hours, and neither ever engaged. I know that there are many stories of babies not dropping until the end, but I really wonder if my children just can't get into my pelvis due to my injury.
I am pretty sure that there is nobody nearby that will help with a vba2c, midwife or ob/gyn, but I just can't get excited about another pregnancy right now if I know it will absolutely end in a C, kwim?
Jeez, ok, so I guess what I am wondering is if anyone knows anyone who has ever had a broken pelvis and had a vag birth (vbac or no). I don't know how much my desire for a third child is wrapped up in the idea that THIS TIME, I can have the birth I want! But I'm really trying to get as informed as I can before I make a decision either way
Thanks!
Long story short, I am considering a third baby after 2 previous sections. About 20 years ago, I was in a car accident where I fractured my pelvis in three places. Hospitalized for a month and had to use a walker for a few months afterward. I get adjusted by the chiro regularly and can tell when the area is out of whack. I chose to go with a very good (ie, not pushy or quick to cut) o/b practice for my births as I knew there was some question as to whether vag birth would be an option and I wanted to be in the hospital "just in case."
I labored with both children, the first for more than 24 hours, and neither ever engaged. I know that there are many stories of babies not dropping until the end, but I really wonder if my children just can't get into my pelvis due to my injury.
I am pretty sure that there is nobody nearby that will help with a vba2c, midwife or ob/gyn, but I just can't get excited about another pregnancy right now if I know it will absolutely end in a C, kwim?
Jeez, ok, so I guess what I am wondering is if anyone knows anyone who has ever had a broken pelvis and had a vag birth (vbac or no). I don't know how much my desire for a third child is wrapped up in the idea that THIS TIME, I can have the birth I want! But I'm really trying to get as informed as I can before I make a decision either way
Thanks!







I figure I can find a midwife SOMEWHERE in this state that would do vba2c if I can at least find out if my pelvis will work properly! 

