Hello! I'm four days overdue with our second little boy.... I was due on the 17th. I had a c-section with my first son after 17 hours of labor that stalled at 5 cm. He was 9 lb 8 oz and was born with a MAJOR conehead.... he definitely looked like he was trying hard to get through.
I had a doctor's appointment yesterday and my doctor informed me that I have a "narrow pubic arch". He said that could have been why my son couldn't be born vaginally. He's still 100% supportive of me trying for a VBAC, but didn't sound as optimistic that I'll be successful.
My concern is after researching this, it looks like I have a much much higher chance of shoulder dystocia and complications, especially because it's looking like this boy might be another 9 pounder.
Does ANYONE have information on this? I'm completely at a loss of what to do.... part of me just wants to schedule a c-section and get my little boy here safe and in my arms. But I have been striving for this VBAC for YEARS.... planned and researched since the birth of my first son. I'm quite frustrated that I wasn't informed about this narrow pelvic arch thing until just now.
I'm just getting so discouraged.... I'm officially losing all faith in my body. I keep having contractions, but they never usually get regular for a couple hours and then completely putter out. I just feel like my body is broken, and now hearing that I have this "narrow arch", I'm starting to feel like.... what's the point?
Thanks so much!
Jessica
I had a doctor's appointment yesterday and my doctor informed me that I have a "narrow pubic arch". He said that could have been why my son couldn't be born vaginally. He's still 100% supportive of me trying for a VBAC, but didn't sound as optimistic that I'll be successful.
My concern is after researching this, it looks like I have a much much higher chance of shoulder dystocia and complications, especially because it's looking like this boy might be another 9 pounder.
Does ANYONE have information on this? I'm completely at a loss of what to do.... part of me just wants to schedule a c-section and get my little boy here safe and in my arms. But I have been striving for this VBAC for YEARS.... planned and researched since the birth of my first son. I'm quite frustrated that I wasn't informed about this narrow pelvic arch thing until just now.
I'm just getting so discouraged.... I'm officially losing all faith in my body. I keep having contractions, but they never usually get regular for a couple hours and then completely putter out. I just feel like my body is broken, and now hearing that I have this "narrow arch", I'm starting to feel like.... what's the point?
Thanks so much!
Jessica








