From birth, though, emotional issues have been front and center. When he was 11 months old and could sit but not roll, we noticed and were concerned, but since he screamed 12-16 hours per day, it wasn't so much on our minds, you know? He currently has diagnoses of ADHD, severe generalized anxiety, SPD, and we have bipolar kind of hanging there, waiting to see if it declares itself. We believe he's had some auditory hallucinations. He also has cognitive deficits.
So we hunted like crazy for a bottom line dx until about 2 years ago when we finally saw a geneticist. Those tests all came back negative and the geneticist told us he thought that Carter probably does have a genetic syndrome, but that it's not something that science has yet identified. We were very disappointed; Carter's profile is so very similar to that of fragile X, I couldn't help but get my hopes up that we'd finally have our answer.
So like I said, we made our peace with living without a diagnosis (I'm speaking of a bottom-line dx; of course he has lots of dx that relate to individual problems.). But now the therapist Carter is working with has taken his case to a neuropsychologist who thinks there might still be some things to explore, maybe a perinatal stroke or some perinatal hypoxia.
So I'm trying sooo hard not to get my hopes up, but it's hard to help it. The biggest clue, according to the neuropsychologist, is the unilateral weakness. That can only be neurological, which of course we knew, but I didn't know there could be a chance of identifying its cause.
But the question is, could it be identified? Carter had a brain MRI at 14 months. If he'd had a stroke, wouldn't that scan have picked that up? What about hypoxic brain damage? Carter was born with a true knot in his cord which did not cause any trouble during labor/birth, but I wonder if it could have caused some problems in the days or weeks before?
I know that I have to wait for the neuro to do the tests and answer my questions, but that won't be for awhile and I know that you all know how hard the waiting can be! I don't understand exactly why I'm so anxious; having a dx won't really change anything. He'll still need the same therapies and meds.
OK, that's not true. It would be validation, of which I seem to be in desperate need lately, ever since we started homeschooling and my family started screeching about how he'd be just fine if I'd just let him be a normal kid.
But, you know, I'm trying hard not to be so affected by that.So anyway, I've been reading about perinatal stroke and many experts say it's very underdiagnosed when the stroke is milder or happens long enough before the birth that symptoms have diminished, so it certainly seems possible, but most of the info I can find pertains to children who are profoundly disabled from birth.
I guess I'd just throw all my jumbled thoughts out here and see who had what thoughts.









