GBS came back positive. I'm so upset. it's a deal breaker for dh, and i don't blame him. I personally might still UC and watch the baby extra carefully, but i understand his perspective, and i don't want to push him into something he isn't 100% on board with. It won't be perfect or beautiful without his support. So we'll be headed to our (wonderful) birth center instead. At least we have that... The midwives there are so hands off.
But here's the thing. I have to get 2 doses of antibiotics (uggh, the thought makes me ill. i hate medicine) 4 hours apart in labor. and for most people,, that would be easy enough. But my two previous labors were each about 6 hours, and only about 4 hours were honestly active, painful labor, and i only made it to the hospital in time for 1-2 hours of each. And if i don't make it, they want me to stay in the hospital for 48 hours!!!!! As UCers, i'm sure you can all appreciate how horrible THAT sounds. But the worst part is my kids! They're only 2 and 3, still nursing, and SUPER attached to mommy. Going to the birth center for a couple hours was a stretch... For days is just not even an option. If i can't get both doses, i think i'm ok with signing out AMA and watching the baby very carefully, but i dunno about dh. It's just horrible. I never thought i'd be praying for a posterior baby to slow labor down, but here i am.
I got all of this news today at my 37 week mw appt (that will teach me not to UP! next time...) And all morning I had cxns coming 5-6 minutes apart, painful, bloody show, diarrhea. I thought this was it. But i started to get so nervous about everything that i think i somehow turned it off! And now i still have bloody show, and definitely lost my mucus plug, and STILL have diarrhea.... but no more cxns at all. I'm so frustrated! I've never had a false start like that... I didn't realize how draining that was, and so exhausting waiting for it to start up again! And i'm afraid that my anxiety could hold it up indefinitely. And how could i NOT be anxious with the current situation?? Uggh.
Sorry for the vent. I'm just tired and frustrated and I just wanted everything to be so perfect, and it isn't
But here's the thing. I have to get 2 doses of antibiotics (uggh, the thought makes me ill. i hate medicine) 4 hours apart in labor. and for most people,, that would be easy enough. But my two previous labors were each about 6 hours, and only about 4 hours were honestly active, painful labor, and i only made it to the hospital in time for 1-2 hours of each. And if i don't make it, they want me to stay in the hospital for 48 hours!!!!! As UCers, i'm sure you can all appreciate how horrible THAT sounds. But the worst part is my kids! They're only 2 and 3, still nursing, and SUPER attached to mommy. Going to the birth center for a couple hours was a stretch... For days is just not even an option. If i can't get both doses, i think i'm ok with signing out AMA and watching the baby very carefully, but i dunno about dh. It's just horrible. I never thought i'd be praying for a posterior baby to slow labor down, but here i am.
I got all of this news today at my 37 week mw appt (that will teach me not to UP! next time...) And all morning I had cxns coming 5-6 minutes apart, painful, bloody show, diarrhea. I thought this was it. But i started to get so nervous about everything that i think i somehow turned it off! And now i still have bloody show, and definitely lost my mucus plug, and STILL have diarrhea.... but no more cxns at all. I'm so frustrated! I've never had a false start like that... I didn't realize how draining that was, and so exhausting waiting for it to start up again! And i'm afraid that my anxiety could hold it up indefinitely. And how could i NOT be anxious with the current situation?? Uggh.
Sorry for the vent. I'm just tired and frustrated and I just wanted everything to be so perfect, and it isn't








I had my son in the UK and had never even heard of GBS testing until I came here. Now im dreading that I too may end up +'ve. Im not intending to UC but we are heading to the BC and my labour with my son was only 7hrs total, so im gussing this one might be shorter.
... I respect your decision to go with your husband's deal breaker status. I did a lot of research on GBS when I was pregnant and was SHOCKED at how little of a threat it actually is, and that antibiotics increase the risk of other problems. I wasn't tested but if I had been, I would have UC either way, just using hibiclens after my water breaking. I was planning to do that anyhow. As is, my water broke 15 minutes before he was born, so the prolonged ROM didn't happen and wasn't a concern.


