So 1st baby who is 6 months if that makes a difference was born at a hospital with a MW and literally no medical intervention (short of having a fetoscope used for her heartbeat) until immediately after she was born when I had a second degree nearly third degree tear and quite a large PP hemorrhage. It took about 20 minutes to get under control and my placenta didn't deliver they literally had to push it out to get the bleeding to stop, in addition to the pitocin and some other drug that they gave me that I don't even remember.
I had desperately wanted to have a homebirth but DH put his foot down and before DD was born I said that baby number 2 would be a homebirth! That was until the hemorrhage and he freaked out. I am not pregnant again yet but we are hopeful that in about a year I will be. I would love to have a homebirth still but after the first experience is it just too dangerous to consider it? I feel like I lost something I never even got a chance to have which sucks but I certainly wouldn't want to risky my future baby's health or my own. Would a MW even let me? Is it risky? I haven't read anything on the topic because mostly I come across personal experiences as opposed to actual science or numbers.
I had desperately wanted to have a homebirth but DH put his foot down and before DD was born I said that baby number 2 would be a homebirth! That was until the hemorrhage and he freaked out. I am not pregnant again yet but we are hopeful that in about a year I will be. I would love to have a homebirth still but after the first experience is it just too dangerous to consider it? I feel like I lost something I never even got a chance to have which sucks but I certainly wouldn't want to risky my future baby's health or my own. Would a MW even let me? Is it risky? I haven't read anything on the topic because mostly I come across personal experiences as opposed to actual science or numbers.









That is why the nurse insisted on going in with me



