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problem swaddled 7 month old co-sleeper

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Hi! I have a 7 month old baby boy who has been swaddled since the day he was born (the Kiddopotamus swaddle). He needs to have it on very tight anytime I am trying to get him to fall asleep. I know that many people usually stop swaddling sooner, but my baby will not settle and fall asleep without it. He has never fallen asleep without it since he was about 3 months old (he would sleep in my wrap). I am now having a lot of trouble within the past 4 weeks with him to sleep. I don't know if he is starting to outgrow it, or if it's his teething....he just got his first tooth 2 weeks ago and his second tooth last week.

It now takes him much longer to be nursed and rocked to sleep. The big problem is that once he falls asleep he wakes about every hour throughout the night. He is grunting and sometimes fussing in his sleep. Even though he is sleeping right beside me (we co-sleep) he needs to be held and rocked/nursed and shushed to sleep. He used to be an excellent sleeper, just waking about 3-4 times a night to nurse, still sleeping. But now, I don't know what to do! Has anyone else had this problem or can offer any suggestions to help! Anything would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!
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Sounds like teething may be interrupting his usual peaceful sleep.
My daughter was like that and I recall that between 8 months - 14 months was a real roller coaster ride for us and the sleeping. A seemingly standard sleep routine/pattern would change overnight and for weeks on end before returning to a more manageable sleep.
For our daughter is a mixture of growth spurts, teething and growing out of her swaddle.
I found there wasn't much I could do about the growth spurts and teething except nurse and cradle and provide a safe and soothing sleep environment in our bed for her. For me, I felt if I could keep the same sleep rituals it would help her settle back to bed. Sometimes it felt like it helped and sometimes it seemed futile.
As for the swaddling situation, when she outgrew her usual blankets (we used regular blankets. she didn't take to the kiddopotamus.), we took the advice and got muslin blankets (aden + anais). They are larger than the standard blanket and the muslin makes it the perfect light weight blanket for the warmer months.
Oh, we also found that during the growth spurts and teething episodes, her temperature while sleeping would be higher so the light weight blanket helped with the 'too warm to be comfy' factor.
Don't know if this helps. I think all babies go through ups and downs with sleep and as parents we spend more time trying to determine why and how to remedy it.
My daughter is 16 months and last night after months of routine sleep, she woke up every 90 minutes crying. I spent the night propped up with pillows rocking her in my arms. Hoping you and your little one has a more restful night's sleep tonight.
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advice thank u

Thank you so much for your advice!!! I truly appreciate it! It makes me feel better to know that I am not alone. I will definitely buy the muslin blanket and see if being swaddled more loosely and in a more breathable blanket will help. Thank you so much and I wish you lots of good nights rest!
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