Wow. Thank you all so much! I really appreciate you taking the time to answer my question!
OGirlieMama, I think you hit the nail on the head with this:
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Originally Posted by OGirlieMama 
It's very easy for someone who is not deeply educated in the details to take a little bit of data (reading an article about a study showing poorer outcomes for twin B) and then a little bit of personal experience (2-3 twin Bs with several developmental issues) and draw a conclusion like that.
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Except that I don't know that she's even read an article. She's not a HCP, she manages the case workers there. She's easily swayed by anecdotal evidence, at least that which backs up her "mainstream" ideas. (I know that word can cause trouble here, I just don't know how else to describe it - she generally agrees with whatever most docs would recommend: hospital birth, c/s for breech, etc.) She's not one to question "authority" or research for herself and potentially change her mind. She actually told me she'd have to stop talking to me if I decided not to vax (we do selective/delayed). Anyway, getting WAY off topic!
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Originally Posted by Intertwined 

I think it's probably true that the second baby has a higher risk of issues ( although I wonder if that's innate or the rush to get him/her out that's the problem) and I can see how your friend might jump to the conclusion that a c-section is safer. In reality, it's a case by case basis. For sure, sometimes there is a better outcome with surgery. In some cases, it's safe to deliver both babies vaginally (and we probably all know the significant benefits of vaginal birth for both mother and babies).
I gave birth to my twins at home. I do not consider myself irresponsible nor did I feel that I put my babies at risk. I presented with a presentation that would have gotten me immediate surgery in the hospital but I was lucky enough to be at home and gave birth to both babies without serious incident.
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The bolded part is a good point. Isn't that part of why breech can be so dangerous, twin or not, since HCPs panic and start messing with things that should be left alone?
Also, I hope you didn't misunderstand me: I wasn't saying that
I think homebirth is irresponsible, just that she does. I think it's great you were able to be at home!

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Originally Posted by shukr 
i'd ask her about the details of their births tbh, out of curiosity. ultimately they might be a twin, but each has their own birth, which can be just as varied as singletons.
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This would be interesting. Though I don't know if she even has that information, nor would it sway her in any way, unfortunately.

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Originally Posted by rachel65655 
I think that the practice of immediate cord clamping after Twin A is born has a lot to do with the need to resuscitate Twin B's and them having a lack of oxygen.
The clamping of the cord signals to your body that it is finished with the placenta and it will start to detach. With Twin B still in there, I am sure that they are then being deprived of oxygen.
We are going to be delaying cord clamping for at least a few minutes. But we also know that both babies have separate sacs and placentas. In the case of identical twins, this wouldn't be safe obviously if the are sharing a placenta, but...
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I knew that it was important to delay cord cutting in general, but I guess I hadn't thought about it in the case of twins.
Thanks so much for all your info mamas! Like I said, I know I have no hope of changing my friend's mind, but it was something that made me wonder. Thanks!