Yeah, this doctor's approach would totally work on my DH, not so much with me. I think I'd hand him his a** back on a plate. One of the OBs I initially interviewed tried to manipulate me and I put my bag and coat on and got ready to walk out. DH was embarrassed and wanted me to stay to hear her out, but I was like, "I've heard enough, I'm done here."
Really, it makes you think how sinister the whole forcing women into mainstream medical care is...all this guy cares about is his authority and procedure.