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post #21 of 23
DS was like that. He cried like we were killing him, every second he spent in the car. I'd pull over and take him out and nurse him, and he'd be as happy as could be, and then I'd put him back in the seat, and all hell would break loose. Every single time. He was capable of going three hours like that, with the screaming, with me pulling over every fifteen minutes the whole time, and he would never, ever, ever fall asleep.

I became a hermit. When I had to drive, he screamed and screamed. Nothing helped. Nothing. This went on for like six months. It was horrible.

Then we switched him to a rear-facing convertible seat, and it got much, much better. He still hated it, but he would fuss awhile and then settle down and go to sleep. He learned to appreciate stuff like music, white noise, his sisters sitting next to him, the caterpillar rattle I gave him. It was an enormous difference.

FWIW, he's almost three now and has a TERRIBLE motion sickness problem. He pukes so often in the car, that I automatically cover him with towels after strapping him in, if we're going to be going more than ten miles. It's gotten better since he's turned forward-facing, but it's still a major problem for us.

I don't know that the motion sickness was the issue in early infancy since he never vomited in the car.

But I would highly recommend the convertible seat, one with a nice high base so baby sits high in the car, installed at a bit less of an incline. It was a dramatic overnight improvement for us. And you're gonna need one eventually, anyway.
post #22 of 23
My DD doesn't like riding in her carseat during the day. We don't go out much at night these days. But I have noticed she is most upset when she is tired and wants to sleep (can't sleep in the carseat) or she is hungry. So the only time we go on trips is after she wakes from a good nap and her tummy is full.
post #23 of 23
Have you tried swaddling? The kidpotomus swaddleme blankets have a hole to put the car seat strap through and close with velcro. Ds1 was miserable in the car unless he was sleeping for a long time, especially at night. We did a combination of swaddling, loud static and nursing or finger sucking. Eventually we were able to switch to music. DS2 is happier in the car, but we still swaddle him and offer a pacifier (which we've decided this time around probably won't hurt him especially since he hardly uses it except sometimes in the car). I think the mirror helps too and always suspected that was part of why it was worse in the dark.
The other thing that I think helped was focusing really hard on staying calm myself and breathing long relaxed breaths. I think ds could pick up on my stress and if I could break the cycle (not easy) it helped him calm down somewhat.
Good Luck.
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