What happened? People usually don't use throw you out like that, was there a fight or something?
I never know what will set her off....we can go days or weeks getting along fine and then BAM she freaks out about something and does something crazy. I'm in therapy and working on responding better to her so that I can cope until I can get out.
The trigger this time was that I went over to someone else's house. She doesn't like me to have friends of any kind esp a bf (even though he is also my child's father) so the nicer other people are to me the meaner & more controlling she gets. I have another, married friend who is older than me and has 3 kids, very stable and wonderful to be around; my mom ran out to her van when I was leaving with them once, ripped open her shirt, opened the driver's door and tried to pull my friend out of the car. She will take the batteries out of the cordless phone, lock up all the phones in one room so I can't use them, she has actually cut the cords to various appliances like the computer before to keep me from using them. The only way to keep her happy is to do everything her way.