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How Much are you/were you nursing at 12mo?

post #1 of 10
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I've been following Little One's cues in regards to feeding for the first year. She was nursed on demand and showed no interest in solids until about 10 months- until she could self feed small chunks of whatever we were eating.

Once she started eating solids she was very interested. I figured once we hit a year that I would start to up her solid intake. For awhile she seemed to want to eat everything and there wasn't a fruit/veggie she wouldn't eat.

She spent the better part of an afternoon with my mother in law where she gorged on cheerios and goldfish crackers

Now she isn't satisfied unless she is eating some sort of carby-starchy food. Also she is still nursing 8-10 times a day/night. I thought for sure that would at least start to drop off after she turned a year.

So she eats a pretty good breakfast. Usually a whole banana, some yogurt with wheat germ mixed in and sometimes she'll have a little bit of homemade toast with tahini butter.

She used to love cheese- so much that I couldn't cut it up fast enough for her. Now she doesn't want to have anything to do with it.

I feel like all she wants to do is nurse, eat bananas, avocados and that's pretty much it. Lunches and suppers are so hard. She won't eat meat. She used to love cooked carrots but now she ignores them. I've tried black beans and tofu and cooking veggies in stock for added flavor. One day she likes raspberries and the next day she cries if I put them in front of her.

This is all so frustrating and confusing!!!

I absolutely am not looking to wean her but I'm starting to get sore and very tired of nursing as much as I did the day I brought her home from the hospital. Plus it doesn't help that my husband's family thinks it's gross that she's till BFing and I feel weird still needing to nurse her every time I leave the houes for more than an hour.

She's my first and I just have no idea what I am doing or what I should be doing.

She also nurses every 2 hours through the night and now that she's got a few teeth I'm worried about cavities forming.

Any help?
post #2 of 10
Mine's 13 months, and is still 99% bf-he barely eats any solids. I think it just depends on the kid-I'd stick with following her cues. If you're worried about cavities at night, just brush her teeth after her last solids, and you don't have to worry about it (leaving food particles on the teeth is what causes plaque and cavities-not breastmilk)
post #3 of 10
My youngest will be a year old this week and she is eating some solids at each meal with us plus nursing twice before naps and some snacking in between. She is still night nursing a lot also. Seems right about normal from my other children.

I know there are differing opinions on the night nursing causing cavities, but honestly I am not concerned about it at all. All of my children nursed at night for a long time and only two of them have issues with their teeth and I am about 99% sure it is from our water.
post #4 of 10
My dd isn't quite a year yet, she's just at 10 1/2 months. But she didn't even really seem interested in "big people food" till around 8 months, and then only occassionally. She ate avacados for over a month, off and on with BFing, but then started not seeming to like those either.

Two days ago she decided she liked baby food pears (we have baby food jars through WIC) and squash. She's super picky, so I just keep trying till she's happy.

She's always been a "snacker", but we still BF around 4-8 times a day, and 4-6 times at night (mostly at night it's just to fall back to sleep). She has 4 teeth, and we are going to start brushing her teeth before bed now.

Obviously I'm right there with you, but be encouraged it's not just your LO that's like that! I always like to think of the fact that most of her poops still smell mostly breastmilk "sweet" and not all yucky like a lot of my friend's 1 yo's. Looking on the bright side.

I found that where she was depended on her wanting to eat too. For some reason, we did something that made her hate her highchair, so now I sit with her on the floor and she'll eat with me better there.

Good luck and keep on at it!

-Morgan
post #5 of 10
My son nursed every hour or two since he was born. Now he may go three or four between or every hour (he's 2.5yrs).
post #6 of 10
It sounds like you're doing everything exactly right!!
Every baby is different, but my DD#1 started solids at 10 months too, when she could feed herself, she never wanted to be fed. I think it's very normal for their tastes to change at this age, or for food jags where there want only one food for a few days, then change to another "favorite". I'd just keep offering healthy variety but not get worked up at which things she chooses to eat. My DD nursed frequently still at 1 year, she'd go longer stretches during the day if she was busy, but nursed every 2 hours during the night until she was about 14 months old and started to FINALLY sleep longer stretches. Again, I think you're doing great, just nurse her when she wants to!
My Dh's family always made comments about me BFing DD after a year, especially my FIL, I just refused to talk about it and absolutly ignored all comments, but I totally understand your frustration with it! It made me just want to avoid my DH's family, but honestly, I think they were just uneducated/ignorant!
post #7 of 10
Also I wouldn't worry about cavities/nursing at night. As long as you brush her teeth before bed to get the table foods off, the breastmilk shouldn't hurt her teeth. From what I understand the breastmilk is actually good for the teeth. I know I've read research, but have no idea where to find it again, hopefully someone else will have info on that!
post #8 of 10
Ds started solids at 7 months & is now 13.5 months. He eats A LOT of food during the day but still bf's 6-8 times in a 24 hour period.
post #9 of 10

I feel better now. thank you.

Thank you so much for posting this and everyone's comments! I was wondering if this was a normal thing for my DS (13 mo) to be BFing all night long. Just a quick question though...if I stated nursing him more during the day would he go longer in between at night? I could really use the sleep. Even not, I now it's so good for him and I should be happy that he loves my milk.
post #10 of 10
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Originally Posted by stacythemom View Post
Thank you so much for posting this and everyone's comments! I was wondering if this was a normal thing for my DS (13 mo) to be BFing all night long. Just a quick question though...if I stated nursing him more during the day would he go longer in between at night? I could really use the sleep. Even not, I now it's so good for him and I should be happy that he loves my milk.
It's worth a try, my DD was always too busy and distracted during the day to eat much, which I think is why she still ate so often during the night! It doesn't last forever though, and then you miss those moments!
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