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PT/PL, I think we are at a critical point. Help me do the right thing!

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DS is just about 2.5. We brought a potty into the house at around 18 months, just to hang out and have it be something he could get used to. At about 20 months, he peed in it one night before his bath and did a few times after that, but one day, just wanted nothing to do with it. Not wanting to make it a power struggle, we backed off.

Since then, we've been kinda inconsistent, honestly. He's peed a couple more times here and there in it. We ask him to let us know when he needs to go so we can get the potty to catch it and I know he understands. He loves reading potty books. He has lots of friends who he sees use the potty(even his), he knows whats up with it.

Complicating matters a bit, we've had to switch entirely to disposable diapers for the past few months. He was almost exclusively in cloth before then, but even after stripping all my diapers and adding doublers and the likes, none of mine can hold his toddler sized pee without leaking. I can't afford new ones

Generally, DH and I are pretty chill about the whole thing. DH, admittedly, still has issues with the fact that its going to be "messy," but whatever, he'll get over it. But, ok, here is the punch line, (finally!), DS is doing that thing when he tells us just about every time he does something in his diaper (except at night of course). Isn't this a critical moment in PT/PL maybe? Where do I go from here???
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Have you tried a week of bottomless? All my boys ( except my 13mo old) showed the same sighs ( telling us when they went etc) I took all daytime diapers way and did a cold turkey kind of potty bootcamp. It took about 3 days to become good at it. We had some accidents but by the weeks end they were 95%. I set a timer for 60 minutes if they didnt go then ever 30 minutes we "tried"a gain. I did give incentives for trying and bigger treats for "going" ( we did cocolate chip ( 1) for trying M&M ( 2) for peeing and a hershy kiss for pooping. We still did diapers/pull ups for nights/naps
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don't have much advice, but wanted to say i'm in a similar situation and not sure where to go from here. DD liked to sit on the potty around 18 months, but never has eliminated into it. after a while she lost interest. i had DD2 when DD1 was 23 months (almost 4 months ago), so didn't push things. now DD1 knows for sure when she's going to poop, often announces it, but refuses, cries and resists if i even offer the potty. at what point do i just make her do it? i've been giving her stickers on a chart on the wall for sitting on the potty because up to a few weeks ago, she'd cry if i even tried to get her to sit on it. now she's willing to sit, but no action. also, i've been inconsistent. hard to help her learn when i'm also caring for a baby.

i'm interested in the responses!
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