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Help!! What is the "right" way to breastfeed???

post #1 of 14
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My (first) DD is almost 6 weeks old. I think my problem is that I have been reading too many parenting books. Too much conflicting advice has overloaded my poor sleep deprived brain.

But my question is this...are you supposed to do both breasts at every feeding? Or do you do left at one feeding, then right at the other? I sort of do a combination of both. I pretty much "nurse on demand", i.e. feed the babe when she appears to be hungry, which is sometimes every 4 hours (at night) and sometimes every 4 minutes (she often seems to want to nurse a lot in the evening). So sometimes I give her both breasts, sometimes I alternate. In the morning my breasts are really full, so I pump one breast and feed her off the other (I'm stashing some milk in the freezer for when I go back to work part-time in January). I let her nurse as long as she wants, which is sometimes only a few minutes, and sometimes more like 20-30 minutes.

She's gaining weight fine, and makes plenty of wet and dirty diapers. The only thing is that her poop is sometimes green instead of yellow. My pediatrician says this is fine - other sources seem to indicate a foremilk/hindmilk imbalance. Also, I am a vegetarian and eat a lot of beans and cabbage and other things that I've read can upset baby's stomach.

Ok, so WHICH BOOB DO I OFFER HER? One or both?
post #2 of 14
I did one breast per feeding for a long time with my babies. I'd give the first breast and let them nurse as long as they'd suck on that one with a little breast compression thrown in at the end to make sure they were getting lots of hind milk when they were tiny. Then I'd burp them and offer the other one. Most of the time, they didn't want it. I'd start with that breast for the next feeding.

I had OALD and over supply issues to boot, but my general rule of thumb was if they spent less than 2-3 minutes on a breast, at the next feeding, they got that one first.

It sounds like you are doing just fine! If your baby is happy, gaining weight and making enough dirty and wet diapers, you should absolutely feel free to make it up as you go along . the only thing I would change is that if she just "nibbles" and takes a few sips for a minute or 3 at one breast is to offer that breast first the next time around and try some compressions. If that doesnt' help the green poo, if she's not fussy and gassy, green is totally within the realm of normal .
post #3 of 14
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I did one breast per feeding for a long time with my babies. I'd give the first breast and let them nurse as long as they'd suck on that one with a little breast compression thrown in at the end to make sure they were getting lots of hind milk when they were tiny. Then I'd burp them and offer the other one. Most of the time, they didn't want it. I'd start with that breast for the next feeding.

I had OALD and over supply issues to boot, but my general rule of thumb was if they spent less than 2-3 minutes on a breast, at the next feeding, they got that one first.

It sounds like you are doing just fine! If your baby is happy, gaining weight and making enough dirty and wet diapers, you should absolutely feel free to make it up as you go along . the only thing I would change is that if she just "nibbles" and takes a few sips for a minute or 3 at one breast is to offer that breast first the next time around and try some compressions. If that doesnt' help the green poo, if she's not fussy and gassy, green is totally within the realm of normal .
You're just fine.
post #4 of 14
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It sounds like you are doing just fine! If your baby is happy, gaining weight and making enough dirty and wet diapers, you should absolutely feel free to make it up as you go along . the only thing I would change is that if she just "nibbles" and takes a few sips for a minute or 3 at one breast is to offer that breast first the next time around and try some compressions. If that doesnt' help the green poo, if she's not fussy and gassy, green is totally within the realm of normal .


The right way is the way that works for you and baby! Sounds like you are doing great
post #5 of 14


I think you're over-thinking this. There is no right way. What's right is what's working to meet baby's needs. And it sounds like you're doing fine!

A lot of times I would offer only the left side, multiple times, because it was more convenient for me to have that hand free. Then I'd try to make up for it by using the right a lot at night, because it's more comfy for me to lie on that side. Sometimes I'd offer each side multiple times in a short period of time, especially with DD2 because she would get mad when the flow slowed down on one side. DS on the other hand liked to just hang out on one side for hours and hours. It all works out fine. And poop varies a lot-- a few green poos are no big deal if baby is growing and happy. I really wouldn't worry about it.
post #6 of 14
do it however you want alternate or not. I liked to switch things up from time to time one side per feed then try both at a feed. At night I often only nursed one side all night then alternate during the day etc.
post #7 of 14
It sounds to me like you're doing everything exactly right!! I often just feed off one side, unless DD seems hungry still after she drains that side, then I offer her the other, and sometimes she takes it, other times she turns her head and doesn't want it. I'd just watch your baby's cues just like you're doing, she'll let you know when, how often, and how much she wants to eat!!
post #8 of 14
Sounds like you're doing great.

Personally, I have never offered the second breast. Ok - maybe a half a dozen times in 14 months I've offered the second breast.
post #9 of 14
I always tell clients to nurse on one side and offer the other if they take it fine if not that's fine too just start the next feeding on the opposite side..
post #10 of 14
As everyone said -it looks like you are doing fine. In addition to the wonderful support you're getting here at MDC, you can check out kellymom for researched-based breastfeeding info. Kellymom is my online bf'ing bible!
post #11 of 14
I started out offering both sides, but my first newborn soon made it clear that she was not interested in the other side. She also nursed for only 5 minutes on the first side - we had a combo of high supply and efficient baby, but boy was I nervous until I realized that her diapers were usually wet and she was gaining/growing. Then I relaxed about it. Seems that's all she needed/wanted. Ds, on the other hand used to nurse *all.the.time* so i did block nursing - offering one side for a couple hours then offering the other side for a couple hours If it works for your baby, you're doing it perfectly
post #12 of 14
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I think you're over-thinking this. There is no right way. What's right is what's working to meet baby's needs. And it sounds like you're doing fine!
'zactly.

I fussed over this for a while, but when they start getting more control and more mobile THEY dictate to YOU how any given nursing session will go down. Just this afternoon I nursed with a baby foot on my pump (creasing the tubing and cutting off suction of course), a hand up my nose and nipple stretched to maximum so he could crane around to see what the dog was doing.
post #13 of 14
Another vote for "your fine" and "your thinking about this too much"

I generally nurse on one side at each feeding. Generally. If he keeps nursing and nursing and nursing, we'll switch. But not close to every time. And generally I start on the opposite one the next time. But half the time I can't remember and just feel them and whichever one feels "fullest" is the one we start on... But really, whatever works for you, works
post #14 of 14
Another vote for you are doing great! Every mom and every baby is different. And every feeding can be different. With my own, he likes both sides during most feedings. He'll even stop short of finishing on one side to get to the other. IDK why, maybe he thinks the other one is "dessert?" But at night, he only wants one side, and I couldn't pry his little mouth open and make him nurse on the other one.
Follow your baby's lead. She knows her tummy and when it's hungry and when it's not. Offer the one side and if she gets satisfied with it, then stop and start with the other side the next time. If she doesn't get satisfied with the one side, then switch her to the other. She may only be 6 wks old, but she's a smart girl when it comes to this feeding business and she'll let you know what she wants.
And, FWIW, mine had crazy bright neon green poops for almost 6wks. He was gaining well, happy and content, so I just went with it. Now his poops are textbook yellow, mustardy poops. I don't put a lot of stock in looking at the color of the poop beyond the meconium vs breastmilk poop stage in a newborn.
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