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post #1 of 11
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NAK... and 1 handed here.
whats everyone's babes doing for naps? how long? how often? where do they sleep? how do you get them down??? having a rough time here.
Be back later with more info. toddler meltdown....
post #2 of 11
We have a hard time with naps, too. DS probably is only getting 2-3 hours total of naps during the day. He naps best when he's on me, after eating. I try to lie him down in the pack and play after, but it doesn't always work.

I usually try to get him to at least nap once in the morning in his swing. I can get about 30 minutes in there. Then, I try again in the afternoon in his pack and play. Which doesn't always work. Then, at around 4, I just let him fall asleep after nursing in my lap. I stay there for as long as he's asleep. Not perfect, but it's better than him not napping.

We get some super quick naps here and there during the rest of the day and early evening. I'm talking like 15 minutes. He's truly a cat.

I'll be interested in what every one says. I'm struggling with this, too and would love for him to sleep longer (and not always on me).
post #3 of 11
DD is very irregular; some days she sleeps practically all day, others she is awake most of the time. She often goes back to sllep within an hour af waking and is up and down all day. Sometimes she falls asleep nursing; other time she refuses to nurse and must be rocked and sung to sleep. Occasionally I will feed her then lay her down and she will fall asleep on her own, but that not that common.
post #4 of 11
we've had to wear and bounce our baby for EVERY nap or she would get overtired and scream. so we could have her napping from 45 min-3 hours in the wrap/sling on the yoga ball. but never anywhere else.

I just got an auto-bouncing baby hammock (see Baby Hammock Solutions thread) so we don't have to bounce on the yoga ball all the time.
and lo and behold, she had a 3 hour nap in the hammock this AM, and I just put her down in the crib while she was awake 1 hour ago, and she is napping there now. It took 12 steps to get her down - the 12 steps of napping!

but ordinarily, one way or the other, she naps for 2-3 hrs in the AM, then again around 1 or 2PM for 1.5-2 hours, and then 1 hour around 4 or 5PM.
post #5 of 11
we are about the same as meredith. i have learned to do everything one handed because she does like the sling too much.
post #6 of 11
I must have really easy babies. My baby sleeps all. of. the. time. From what I remember, all five of them have been this way. This baby sleeps much of the day away. She has alert, happy periods where we talk to her and she beams back at us, but more often is asleep or nursing. I'm sure she'll get more demanding when she is around four months. That is when my other babies "woke up". She LOVES her swing and the wrap for naps and when she's awake just wants to be held and played with.
post #7 of 11
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We have a hard time with naps, too. DS probably is only getting 2-3 hours total of naps during the day. He naps best when he's on me, after eating. I try to lie him down in the pack and play after, but it doesn't always work.

I usually try to get him to at least nap once in the morning in his swing. I can get about 30 minutes in there. Then, I try again in the afternoon in his pack and play. Which doesn't always work. Then, at around 4, I just let him fall asleep after nursing in my lap. I stay there for as long as he's asleep. Not perfect, but it's better than him not napping.

We get some super quick naps here and there during the rest of the day and early evening. I'm talking like 15 minutes. He's truly a cat.

I'll be interested in what every one says. I'm struggling with this, too and would love for him to sleep longer (and not always on me).
Okay. This is totally Israel. 15 min naps is all I get unless I hold him and then can he sleep for hours. I can't get him to fall asleep anywhere but my arms or the swing.. but in the swing all I get is a cat nap.. everytime I lay him down he wakes up... I even swaddle him in the swing. He just wants to be held but I havent figured out how to take of my toddler one handed so I literally CANT hold him all day.. even if he is in the moby I can't really change my toddlers diaper so it doesnt work so good. seriously what is with the 15 min naps??
he is doing great at night.. sleeping in the crib( side cared to the bed) for like one 4-5 stretch and then every 2-3 hours after that. He sleeps on his belly at night and I tried that for naps and it doesnt work either. He gets majorly overtired and just cries and fusses too so I really am trying to prevent that but its literally impossible to get him to stay asleep unless i hold him and i cant do that all day.
post #8 of 11
i swaddle my baby up in a miracle blanket and he sleeps away ... literally. he has a 2 1/2 - 3 hour nap in the am, another 2 1/2 - 3 hours in the afternoon, another hour or so in the evening .... he has no long period of sleep at night and we wake every 2-3 hours during the night but co-sleep and nurse lying down so it really doesn't bother me much (yet)

however -- this is my first baby (out of three) that has slept this much or this well. it may just be his temperament rather than anything that i am doing or not doing.
post #9 of 11
I wish there was napping here. It's one or two hours of sleep then waking to feed. Rarely do we go four hours between feedings. And he's not fond of sleeping at night - usually we're up and fussy from midnight to 5am - the other night he was up till 8am. And when he gets that fussy-crying, he has to be walked around the house bundled up in a blanket. So then he ends up sleeping all morning and part of the afternoon (again, waking every two or three hours to BF).

Needless to say, I'm exhausted and at the end of my rope. I'd love to be awake in the day and asleep at night. Feels like that's never going to happen.
post #10 of 11
Naps are pretty irregular here.. He usually takes a morning nap in the swing or car if we are out and about. Then another afternoon nap in the swing then an evening nap with me holding him. I usually have to hold him most of the evening and can eventually put him down around 9 give or take an hour.

I don't even want to talk about how many times he has been waking up at night though!
post #11 of 11
Tristan is a good sleeper, especially compared to my DD who had to be held for every single nap until after 3 months, and who never slept more than 3 hours in a row until 18 months.

Tristan usually gets 4-5 naps in in a day. In the morning I put him down in a Snuggle Nest in his crib, also swaddled, sometimes with white noise, and he'll usually get in 2 1-hour naps before noon. In the afternoon I put him in the baby swing, swaddled, with white noise, and he'll often take 2 2-hour naps, then another quick 1-hour nap in the late afternoon/early evening. For whatever reason, if I put him in the swing like that in the morning he still only sleeps 45-60 minutes per nap; and in the afternoon he'll only sleep 45-60 minutes in the crib.

I nurse him when he wakes up, then we usually "play" a bit (which is mostly smiling at each other and making cooing noises), then when he starts to get bored and sleepy I change his diaper and nurse him until he's done. He usually doesn't fall asleep right on the breast, I have to rock him or bounce him or stand up and sway for about 15 minutes before I can try to put him down somewhere.

He'll nap in the Moby Wrap as long as I keep moving while I'm wearing him. If I stop, he wakes up. So I usually only wear him if we're out of the house, grocery shopping or something.

DD, like I said, she was totally different. I had to swaddle her and nurse her to sleep, and she ONLY feel asleep while nursing for the first 9 months of her life. It had to be perfectly silent, too, and she didn't care one way or another about rocking. She would take 5 shorts naps a day for most of the first year. One the flip side, she turned into an excellent sleeper at about age 2. She still naps 2-3 hours a day.
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