DH a little neglected

[kjs]

My poor DH is getting cranky for being neglected ( in every way). I feel kinda bad, but after I tend to baby 24hours a day, then comes 5 yr old DS and then 10 year old DD, and then MAYBE me? Is it bad that I would rather floss my teeth or take a long shower or lay down in bed alone when I get a free moment?? It is even worse now that I am back to work 28hrs a week.....I am afraid he will lose all his patience soon. Can post partum hormones COMPLETELY remove ALL your sex drive?????? I really do not want to hurt our relationship, but most of the time all I care about is my sweet smelling chubby little baby......get out of the bed DH. SAD

[firewoman]

This is me. I'm 10 weeks PP and we just had sex for the first time two days ago. It was good, though. I was tired but we took a steamy shower together and he kissed me while we were in there. It felt nice to feel his touch again and it did fill me back up.

[Pookietooth]

Yeah, I have no sex drive and with ds and dd both in the bed with me, I can't get up to dtd and leave them together anyway.

[Norasmomma]

My sex drive plummeted after DD was born 3 years ago, funny thing was when I was pg it was at an all time high and he wouldn't touch me because he was freaked out about having sex. Taking maca brought it back for me, but that raises you fertility.