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So part of me hates just to give all of that up, but OTOH, I feel that I want to remember DC and the things they did, not the afternoons I spent tearfully taking pictures. I read once in a book on simplicity that many people spend more time preserving memories than making them. One group of DH's family is like that. They told us that they have 3500(!) pictures from a 12-hour labor & delivery. How could Dad have been really "in" the process at all? He was taking pictures constantly! They're extreme (I hope), but I don't want to be like that. I watch them, and so much of their lives are staged. I don't believe I've seen candid shots of them; they go to elaborate lengths to make everything *look* as if they were having fun. The end resul (from my perspective) is that personality is lost in all of the memory-capturing.
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The pics I take of her belongings don't take me very long. I have a box of what I want to photograph and put them on my kitchen island (it's black, so it makes a good backdrop), and go through them. It'll take me a about 10 or 15 minutes. I don't take pictures of everything that goes out, just things that give me a pang but I don't want to keep. It's really not all that much. I know what you mean on spending more time preserving memories than making them.I am so ready to get started on this. I'll probably be starting on the 27th.








....who has time for that?
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The kids and I went through all their dolls and we decided they would keep their favourite 5 dolls and 10 are going to the second hand store and 3 dolls are going to Grandma's house.

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