I read the Introduction this morning, and here's what stuck out to me so far:
"What are you LONG TERM objectives for your children? What word or phrase comes to mind to describe how you'd like them to turn out, what you want them to be like when they're grown?"
"Are my everyday practices likely to produce that outcome?"
My answer to question #2 is no, unfortunately. I tend to yell or hurry or just say no, quite often

My answer to question #1 is this:
I want my kids to be fulfilled, content, challengers of the status-quo, creative, kind, loving, intelligent, mindful, brave people.
Another thing that stood out is that when kids obey mindlessly (as my DS sometimes does) they are likely to loose their sense of self

I can attest to that, as that happened to me, growing up. Anyone else started reading yet?