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Potty Poop Strike

post #1 of 8
Thread Starter 
We are slowly trying to potty learn over here, dd is 19 months.

A few months back, maybe two, we decided to go diaper free at home. There was a lot of mess but then she started going in the potty every time. She hasnt had a pee accident in a few weeks. But, we were using the diapers for all sleeping, naps and night, and when we went out.

She has only gone poop in the potty a handful of times. and it was only in the beginning. She hasnt pooped in the potty in over a month. So, it was not really a problem, because we would usually just poop after a nap or something, and it would be fine. Or she would poop on the floor.

But the past two weeks, she has stopped going on the floor and we have stopped using the diapers for sleeping. But she has also pretty much stopped pooping! She went once four days without going! Finally I put her in a diaper for an hour or so and she went. Or she poops when we go out in a diaper after a few days. Shes usually very regular.

Also, she has been saying "poopoo" (which she says for both pee and poo) and then will sit on the potty for 2 seconds and then say all done, not having done anything. She was do this many times during the day, whereas she used to only say it when she had to pee. So we are constantly in the bathroom and shes constantly not pooping.

Also, when we get to be every night, she always says she has to poo, but then never does.

Any ideas? I wanted to start doing diaper free when we go out, but then she would never poop!

Thanks in advance
post #2 of 8
Thread Starter 
No one has any advice?

Today she was wicked cranky all morning, so I nursed her forever and then she was saying "poopoo" and I put her on the potty, read a bunch of books, she was just all antsy. She only peed. So I put on a diaper. Within 5 minutes she had filled her diaper!

Should I just put her back in diapers? I feel so bad for her. She is doing well and is so proud when she pees, and really seems to enjoy going on the potty. I would hate to have to step back, we've made so much progress! She would be completely potty trained if she only pooped! I just dont get it!

HELP!
post #3 of 8
I am having the sme problem with my daughter. She will not poop in the potty. She actually holds it for days at a time. I am at a loss! I feel very frustrated as well.

Does anybody have any advice???
post #4 of 8
Sounds like maybe she needs the feeling of a diaper on to poop because she's used to it? We EC so I haven't dealt with that problem, but one idea I've read about is to have the baby sit on the potty with a diaper on and try to poop that way. Then you could try it with a small hole cut in the diaper, and gradually make the holes bigger until she's pooping without a diaper at all. (That idea would only work with disposables, obviously, unless you want to ruin your fluff! I don't know what kind of diapers you use. ) What position does she usually poop in? It might be that she can't figure out how to get it out while sitting because she's used to standing or crouching. If that's the case, you could try having her poop in the tub, or put the potty in the tub and let her stand over it (so most would go in the potty but overspill wouldn't be a problem).

Good luck! Let us know how it goes.
post #5 of 8
Maybe try posting your question on the EC forum too; the folks over there have LOTS of ideas since we think about elimination all the time.
post #6 of 8
When my twins were learning to use the potty, they would poop in their nightime diapers almost every night. We'd change them, and put them back to bed. Later, we started asking them to sit on the potty before bed. It was a very slow process, one in which they used diapers for pooping for a long time. We finally used M&Ms as a reward for pooping on the potty. It happened, but it was their doing. Potty learning is something I don't think you can do to someone. It has to be theirs to begin with. As adults, we facilitate.

My youngest has been completely different. She has preferred to poop on the potty for a long time now. But that's her doing, not anything I did differently.
post #7 of 8
Thread Starter 
I dont want to push her into pooping in the potty, but she is just doing to well with peeing that I dont want to make her wear a diapers when she prefers not to, you know? We have been using diapers only part time at nitght, but she is ready to not wear one at all. She also seems ready to not wear one out, but this will leave no time to have one on to poop..

So, when do you think I should have her in a diaper to poop? So far I have just been waiting until she farts a lot and then asks to go on the potty but then does nothing. Then Ill ask her if she wants a diaper on, and put it on. But then sometimes she still doesnt poop. I wait until she says she has to pee and then then take it off again. Its always dry.

She pooped yesterday but it was when we went out and put a diaper on her.. If we hadnt gone out.. I'm not sure she would have pooped.


Also, she tossed and turned all night two nights ago. The she woke up insanely early and was wondering around our room whining.. I kept putting her on the potty but she kept getting up. She then pooped in her pants standing up. She was really upset about it. Cried and Cried yelling "POOPOO". It was so sad. When it was washed off she stopped crying.
post #8 of 8
Sounds like she can't poop sitting down. Totally normal, since she's always done it standing up. Try the potty in the tub idea--put it in the tub and have her stand over it. That way most of her poop will go in the potty even if she's standing up. Yes, there'll be some clean up, but much less than if she poops in her pants.
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