I have been seen repeatedly this pregnancy by a CNM at the local clinic (my home birth midwife is 90 minutes away, across state lines, and our insurance doesn't cover the lab she uses). I did this with DD who is now 21 months as well; if I need to transfer someone knows me and I have a local place to get any labs I want done. I was at my "once-every-few-months-visit" last week and was politely told by the CNM that her partner midwives were concerned about me being seen there and the clinic's (part of the Mayo system) lawyer told her that if I was planning a home birth and had transferred my care that I needed to *transfer* my care and not come back. Between what I was told and what I read between the lines the legal people believe that if something bad happens with my home birth that I can come after them. It seems as if the CPM I see is not recognized as a serious, trained professional. This seems ridiculous to me, and I think the CNM (who had a home birth with her own child) agrees. But she also needs her job....I thanked her for any grief she had gotten because of seeing me this long and she said that she never anticipated when she took this job that someday she would be telling a pregnant woman seeking the care of a midwife that she shouldn't come back.
I did tell her that while I didn't want to be a problem to her individually I was more than happy to be a problem to be discussed or an issue for the lawyers. If no-one ever rocks the boat then nothing ever changes.
Now I am wondering if I can write a letter to...someone....explaining how unhappy I am with this. I don't believe that a person being seen in another department/specialty would ever be asked to leave the clinic because they also sought out care elsewhere. I don't want to give the impression that I need them--I have the utmost trust in my CPM and don't want to give them the idea that I don't. But I do feel as if this treatment is unfair and would like to ruffle some feathers, while respecting the CNM who is in an uncomfortable position.
Any thoughts or advice? I want them talking about this!
I did tell her that while I didn't want to be a problem to her individually I was more than happy to be a problem to be discussed or an issue for the lawyers. If no-one ever rocks the boat then nothing ever changes.Now I am wondering if I can write a letter to...someone....explaining how unhappy I am with this. I don't believe that a person being seen in another department/specialty would ever be asked to leave the clinic because they also sought out care elsewhere. I don't want to give the impression that I need them--I have the utmost trust in my CPM and don't want to give them the idea that I don't. But I do feel as if this treatment is unfair and would like to ruffle some feathers, while respecting the CNM who is in an uncomfortable position.
Any thoughts or advice? I want them talking about this!











ed up system. So, working within that system, some mama's choose to get "shadow care." I personally blame the system for FORCING them into that situation. I think it's wrong to blame them.