i make mine simple and very garlicky. simply saute an onion, add a few cloves of chopped garlic, about 1/4 tsp chili powder (or dashes of cayenne, unless your kiddos object to both), add peas and diced tomatoes. you can include mushrooms if you like them.
in a separate skillet i saute garlic and stir the greens until wilted. i think they are best, most flavorful, when just barely cooked. then i serve with rice and possibly cornbread.
a nice variation: same recipe for peas, add broth to make soup, cornmeal dumplings, and just stir in the greens to wilt.