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Originally Posted by chirp 
i would attempt to birth the body first. i'm not sure how ANYTHING can happen in birth...i can really only tell if something isn't right.
i really think i should know how to cut a cord in case of emergency though. it's easy to say "why waste the time?" or "babies in distress need their blood." But if there is anything "birth" has taught me it's to be prepared for the unexpected. and at an unassisted birth, the only thing my baby has is me, so i should be as prepared as possible. right?
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Indeed.
I am in the same boat. I am asking about this because it would be somewhat of an intuitive leap, even for me, to know that a severely short cord is preventing the head from coming out, and then my babes' heads are so big that I am sure that nothing in addition to their heads will fit in or out of me. I would be in a seriously dangerous position if my babe couldn't come out because of a 3" cord, for instance. I just don't understand how I would know, conclude, or do anything about that if it happened. I guess I would trust my body to push the babe and placenta out immediately, because what else would help?
If not, how would you cut a cord that's still inside? And if it's come out and around the neck, why would you cut it rather than birth the baby? I am wondering about the physical aspect here; if the head is out, then why couldn't the body come out? Even if it took a few minutes, it would be better for the babe to have the benefit of cord blood once the compression is off than to be cut and then once birthed need ventilation, no? I don't have anything for ventilation, as a side note, so that would necessitate medical intervention.
I am totally not being contentious- I am sincerely curious.
I understand that some things can seem scary and sometimes people just start doing things because they think that doing things will help, but obviously that's not always or even necessarily true, and I am wondering if that is more likely the case in nuchal cord-cutting than that it's actually helpful in all but the most unusual and serious cases.
The other thing is that I don't birth with a mirror and my dh isn't likely to even know what he's looking at, if he were looking, which he doesn't.
I guess the scenario I am trying to envision here doesn't work out in my experience, so if there ever were such an issue, I'd have to go with whatever at the time. I'd probably consider calling for help though, if the only way to figure out what was wrong was to call for help.
I am sincerely interested in your perspective, not at all to argue or debate, just to share ideas and understandings.
