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post #181 of 610
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Originally Posted by Kimmiepie View Post
This is totally a BFN right?
Kimmie - right now it looks like a BFN, not guaranteeing it will always be the case. I don't see a line right now though.

I'm glad I'm not the only one feeling "pregnant" this cycle.
post #182 of 610
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
I think that would be very appropriate if it weren't a BBT thermometer. I think it's safe to assume men wouldn't be using those kind.
Oh I realize it's a BBT therm. I was just saying that the default for this general variety of therm is orally or rectally (as opposed to in the ear, under the arm) because default is male and males don't have vaginae.
post #183 of 610
No kidding, i wonder if January has a higher CTA failure rate for some reason! Maybe the holidays have something to do with it. The next week has the potential to be more interesting than usual around here!
post #184 of 610
Kimmie ~ Looks like a BFN to me. so far.

I gotcha, Eresh. Just trying to point out how even more ridiculous it is to default to the male position all the time.

Or the cold weather and being trapped indoors with not much to do leads to more pgs...hehe
post #185 of 610
Okay I took it apart. I told you I can get obsessive. I really think I see something here!

http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/t.../hannah058.jpg

Inverted http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/t...annah058-1.jpg

http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/t.../hannah060.jpg

Inverted http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/t...annah060-1.jpg

Feel free to tell me I'm crazy and to wait a day or two. FTR, this was *not* FMU. Anybody have a photoshop?


Tinams- I don't know why but I *always* get pregnant around this time of year. I have babies from October (m/c) through March...never any other time. If I am pregnant I would be due at the end of September but I've never been less than 10 days late giving birth, so October! I think I read something once that said that certain women tend to give birth in the same months (fall or spring etc.)!
post #186 of 610
Um, Kimmie, I do see lines on both the regular pics you have there. Inverted pics always confuse me so I don't know what to say about those. Now the questions are, did that line show up within the time limit and does it have any color? If it's darker than before but was still there within the time limit, I'd call that a BFP. My BFPs always get darker as they dry.
post #187 of 610
I think I may see something but not sure. I think you may need to test with FMU tomorrow.
post #188 of 610
Thanks everyone!

MarineWife- I PM'd Mae and she said it looks like the line that is supposed to be there. It doesn't really have much pink to it and I thought I saw something a few minutes after I took it but it did become darker as it dried. I am just going to try and wait another day or two. I wish I could order some cheap ones off the internet but unless they're coming from Texas, by the time they get here AF will already be here or I will have bought another one because I have no patience.

I'll keep y'all posted.
post #189 of 610
Soooo many updates today, so let's see how many I can remember.

Kimmie- I see BFN, yay! (... ok so this was after the first batch of photos- in the second... i feel like I could go either way. i think I see where the line "should be", what MW is seeing, but I'm not sure if I'm just seeing it because I want to see it...)

I too am in the camp where I hate condoms, like will avoid sex with them, however I *did* find that switching types helps immensely (though not so much that I will willingly use them...)

I'm finding now that we're on the verge of TTC, I'm leaning towards DTD not because I want to, but because I want to get pregnant, and I'm frustrating myself with that. I do want to be pg, but like MW said-- I don't want it to be a purposeful thing. I want to have sex for the sake of having sex, not be having it when I'm not in the mood simply because I'm fertile. le sigh.

DH does the same back and forth about wanting to start TTC or not, but I've starting being very firm with him and telling him he's not allowed to play with my emotions. He'll give me a hug and then pat my belly and do the cutesy 'oh hello baby', which is so cute-- but then it gets my hopes up, so I told him the last few times he's done something like that that he's not allowed to unless he means it. A woman's emotions run haywire enough as it is without that!!

MW- We have a similiar agreement, except I give DH more information. I keep him almost daily informed as to what's happening in the cycle, and then when we DTD if i think there's a chance I'm fertile I tell him once, and only once, that he should probably grab a condom. If he declines, then that's his decision. Often he'll ask before I get a chance to say anything, and I always tell him well I'm on CD X, so it's possible, but you make the decision. Sometimes he'll use backup, and sometimes he decides to leave it to chance, but I'm sure as heck not going to be the one to tell him to do something to prevent. I'd love to give him no information unless he asks for it, but I'm not sure he'd go for it, and seeing as this would be our first, and obviously a major life change, I'd feel bad singlehandedly making that decision.

Toolip-- I have that thermometer too, and I love it except that it's not backlit. I don't have a nightstand on my side of the bed, so I keep the thermometer under my pillow. I'm currently trying to find a little flashlight that I can keep under my pillow with it. Other than that, it seems to be accurate enough for me!

As for the method of temping, about 50% of the time I'm getting up just to temp, and then going back to bed, so I just pull the thermometer out from under the pillow, turn it on in the dark, put in mouth, wait for beep, turn it off, put back under the pillow. Then later on I grab the thermometer and take it to the computer and use the memory function to record my temp for that day. Seeing as I don't leave my bed, and I'm still asleep, I don't feel vaginal temping would be very practical!!
post #190 of 610
I can't see it but I am awful at that. I also didn't see a bfp for my two pregnancies until like 15-16 dpo so maybe I'm blind! Test again tomorrow though!!

I have never gotten pg this time of year, my kids are feb and april. apparently my body likes late winter. This is the month my obgyn told me to get pg though, as she ranted at me about how OLD I am and how I am high risk because of some health issues! It was the most agonizing and depressing appointment ever!
post #191 of 610
To see the thermometer, I have a tiny tealight that is battery operated. Silly now that I think about it.

I realized today that the memory in my thermometer is stuck on 97.7. wtf.
post #192 of 610
Wow, tina! Time for a new OB/GYN? I saw one who tried to give me a hard time about not wanting BC even though I told her I wouldn't mind another baby and that breastfeeding is always bad when pregnant and blah, blah, blah. I never went back to her.

Kimmie ~ The 2nd pic looks like a real line to me. The first one is iffy. That being said, I've never seen an evap line in IRL so I wonder if they really occur. I've only been told about them.
post #193 of 610
I've had an evap before but only one a blue dye test. It was really dark for an evap too. Definitely wasn't pregnant though!

I'm going to test with FMU in the morning and see what happens. I still think it will be a bit too early to tell with $Tree, but I'm afraid I won't be able to wait until Tuesday and then wind up wasting it tomorrow afternoon. So might as well get it over with and use FMU. I only have one test left.
post #194 of 610
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Originally Posted by tinams8 View Post
No kidding, i wonder if January has a higher CTA failure rate for some reason! Maybe the holidays have something to do with it. The next week has the potential to be more interesting than usual around here!
I think it might have something to do with more time at home.. We had a lot more "us" time over the holidays. It wasn't the daily "go to work, come home" repeat cycle. We could stick a movie on for dd and go "take a nap", etc..
post #195 of 610
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Originally Posted by Kimmiepie View Post
I've had an evap before but only one a blue dye test. It was really dark for an evap too. Definitely wasn't pregnant though!

I'm going to test with FMU in the morning and see what happens. I still think it will be a bit too early to tell with $Tree, but I'm afraid I won't be able to wait until Tuesday and then wind up wasting it tomorrow afternoon. So might as well get it over with and use FMU. I only have one test left.
I have photoshop, anything in particular I can do to help? I've not played with pregnancy tests in photoshop before.
post #196 of 610
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Originally Posted by lyterae View Post
I have photoshop, anything in particular I can do to help? I've not played with pregnancy tests in photoshop before.
Thanks! I might need you in the morning when I post my new test.
post #197 of 610
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
Wow, tina! Time for a new OB/GYN?
Nah, she was right, I was being kind of a flake and saying we didn't know if we would ever have kids or not (still don't know!), and I am 35... and she doesn't know much about my health issues and they do sound fairly serious. She is also the high-risk doctor in the practice so it's her job to freak. They are actually very open-minded and it's five female drs and five midwives which is pretty cool. It's my first scary appointment with them after going through two babies so I'm over it.
post #198 of 610
I know you're not supposed to go back and check the tests but I did...and the line is MUCH more visible now. I don't even have to squint to see it. It's very very faint, but much more visible than more. EEk! I'm not posting in this thread again until morning after I take the next test. I will drive myself nuts. A movie with Dh and some Fro-Yo should do the trick to keep my mind off of it!
post #199 of 610
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Originally Posted by Kimmiepie View Post
Okay I took it apart. I told you I can get obsessive. I really think I see something here!

http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/t.../hannah058.jpg

Inverted http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/t...annah058-1.jpg

http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/t.../hannah060.jpg

Inverted http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/t...annah060-1.jpg

Feel free to tell me I'm crazy and to wait a day or two. FTR, this was *not* FMU. Anybody have a photoshop?


Tinams- I don't know why but I *always* get pregnant around this time of year. I have babies from October (m/c) through March...never any other time. If I am pregnant I would be due at the end of September but I've never been less than 10 days late giving birth, so October! I think I read something once that said that certain women tend to give birth in the same months (fall or spring etc.)!
There's a line plain as day in the first pic. I don't really see anything in the second pic.
post #200 of 610
Kimmie - I really have a hard time with the line thing........I never KNEW it could be so faint! With my random cycles I usually either test super early OR I end up testing positive at like 5 weeks pregnant............and let me tell you - there is NO interpretation with THAT blaring line!

I think I might almost kind of miss that.........have a few extra weeks of being in the dark!

My suggestion would be to take a test first thing tomorrow morning and then make sure you only look at it until the 10 min are up! Evap lines are REAL and they SUCK!

AFM - My chart is weirding me out..........I think I do have a thyroid problem (keep in mind I am temping vaginally so that is why my temps are overall higher) but they started out high, got a little lower and I kind of got a few days of creamyish, but still mostly sticky CM. Nothing even in the wet range much less EWCF.
Last cycle my was sooo clear along with corresponding crystal clear and streeeeeetchy EWCF.
So my best guess is that I did not ............only time will tell! If I DID , then I am in serious trouble!

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