Originally Posted by Lunaria
Hello from a newly hairy mama
I've told him I'll shave again after my experiment...but what if I don't want to?
Well, whose body is it? Would he wax his legs if you told him to? Shave his eyebrows? Gain or lose weight to suit your preference?
I mean, I totally understand we all make accommodations for our partners in various ways, but sometimes it sounds like some husbands think they have some sort of ownership of their wives' bodies.
Anyway, it is just his cultural conditioning. It may wear off when he gets used to your natural body.
And no, I don't think it's weird to think seeing armpit hair through a t-shirt is sexy. I think it is too. I think seeing dark leg hair smushed up under pantyhose is wildly sexy, too. That's why I couldn't understand when a previous poster mentioned wishing we could all be "lucky" enough to have fine, blond leg hair. Like, it's okay to have body hair as long as you really can't see or notice it. Hey, I think blond fine leg hair is just great, but I also think coarse thick dark is great. It's all part of what makes each of us unique and beautiful. That's why it makes me sad to see this push for men to be hairless, too. They're trying to convince men that body hair is ugly, just like they've already convinced women. How sad to lose all the variety by having everyone shave off all their hair to look the same.